Why my friend wont tel mi whether she like mi ant?

K3n_27 SG

Cos i like a ger but when i ask her whether she like mi ant? but she always say i am joking and she dun1 2 tel mi leh but when my friend ask her whether she like another ppl mah she just say NO when tok abt mi she dun1 2 say, CAN ANY1 TELL MI WHY??

pinkish purple papayas SG

haai.....
when i read ur post, its exactly the same situation i am currently in.....like as if i am reading myself....

well....chances are.....she doesnt like u...she just feel bad to down u down only....
i feel sad....really do feel sad too....haaai....

K3n_27 SG

izzit? but to mi i dun tink like tat leh.... wat should i do....haiZz
en hw abt u? hav u gt yr anS?

huI SG

But me think hor is maybe she too shy to say leh, sacre later paiseh mah. Embarassed

If she dun wan 2 hurt u, then y she will hurt other ppl by saying no leh...

Gd luck to u... Very Happy

BufPuf SG

maybe she scare that you are not ready on your side loh...fear of rejection loh..scare that if she tell u that she like u..but u dun...skali later cannot even be friends.

sometimes gers dun really say whether they like you is because..they are also not ready to commit yet loh...maybe they just want to wait a while..see how things go..before developing further...

guys are so funni..they always expect gers to tell them that..'Ya..i like you'..but they dun now how much courage that will take..and when gers dun do so..they can actually use this as a reason to tell u...'i waited for you so long..my feeling die off'....

realyl out of point...

pinkish purple papayas SG

oh..then i hope u will get the answer u hope for......
in my case,she just said that we would be better of as friends.......

btw,wat makes u think that she likes u? or what did u do to make her like u?

M©+square SG

My friend. maybe that ger ger likes you. Idea But have you ever asked yourself if she was badly hurt in past relationships?
Idea Maybe she doesn't want to enter into a relationship where she could be hurt again.
Idea Maybe she don't think you can trust you enough to give your heart to you.
Idea Maybe she likes you, but you need to wait first. (don't know for what...pending situation.)
My final advice to you is to search your heart and show your heart to her. Wink don't ask ask ask, you cannot and will not get a answer here.
We hope the inputs had helped you as far as we can! Wink Jia You!
Keep us updated okiez??? Mr. Green

M©+square SG

Well some people just couldn't accept the answer. Love and Hope is powerful enough to delude. Wink

M©+square SG

Heh, you yourself also very troubled hor? Mr. Green

spy8reak SG

u guys fry ur brain cells so much about other parties regarding LOVE. dun u guys ever spare a thought on religion?

BufPuf SG

used to be
but not anymore...

lem0nade SG

Wat for?

spy8reak SG

duh! to prepare yourself for death, silly! you dun live forever y'know! Rolling Eyes

M©+square SG

what religion? Or rather which one? There's so many. Mr. Green

M©+square SG

Anyway...giving counsel to people doesn't get brains fried ya know? Laughing

K3n_27 SG

Sme time she go out wif mi she keep walking close to mi n oso puts her hands on my shoulder too... i reali dunno wat 2 do n say ... dunno wat is she tinking..haizZZzzz sme mre i going NS liao scared she cant wait or ppl snatch away cos many ppls 1 2 Be friend wif her.. haizZz

K3n_27 SG

haha i do nthing.. is she do sme tink tat makes me tink tat she like mi.. sme mre my bdae she sew a photo frame for mi... wat do u tink....

Parka SG

She shy.

K3n_27 SG

actually i 1 2 ask her 2 be my gf , is tat i dunno wat she tinking nw....to mi i tink she like mi but nt sure yet....haizzzZz

NDU SG

Originally posted by K3n_27:

[b]actually i 1 2 ask her 2 be my gf , is tat i dunno wat she tinking nw....to mi i tink she like mi but nt sure yet....haizzzZz[/b]

what actually??? no actually lah.... just try lor.... wont paisay one mah... i mean if you get rejected by her lah....

Mr. Green at least you got BALLS to tell her all this.... and i believe till then you will feel much better also...... agree???