Masturbation Worries

last SG · 2000-07-27T11:54:00+00:00

or a hockey stick. really long.

Can'tStopGal SG

I'm a 14-year old girl. For nearly two years, I have been masturbating almost every day.

Am I abnormal? Do other girls masturbate and are there any negative effects?

My friends told me that I often look pathetic and tired in school. Has this got to do with my daily masturbation, which saps my energy and makes me feel tired all the time?

Sometimes, I feel guity but I can't control myself. Can anyone help me?

jliu SG

The best thing is that you masturbate infront of me. I will love you forever.
cause you look beautiful when you masturbate, dont worry, masturbation is just a phase, its better than crying out loud!

[This message has been edited by jliu (edited 12 February 2001).]

takumi SG

Hi,

I think what u need is control. 2rd thing, u seem to have more free time and energy. 3rd, u r lonely, at least I know this is how u feel. Lastly, u r frustrated by a lot of things.

Maybe u should find something to occupy yrself. For instance, try to pick up ECA if u haven't. I'm not saying that doing this is wrong, human being do have their needs and desire. U must learn to control and divert these energies to other things. I know for the initial stage is hard, but dun give up. Juz keep yrself occupy, u tend to let yr mind run wild while u r not doing anything. U can try it by doing something.

Make more friends. Interact more with yr friends, try go out with them. I'm not an expert, but hope this will help.

Cheers,
takumi

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stringray SG

U are perfecting normal lah.
This is another way u discover your body.
All u need is either self-control(which sometime very diffcult)
or enroll in some courses/exercises.
This way u will be tired or have little time.
Hope it help.
Heeheehee :p :p :p

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stringray SG

U can do it.
Good luck!

Smile Smile Smile

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phoenix09 SG

yah yah..self control..wish u good luck also.... Smile

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nOrmalbOi SG

OH MY GOODNESS!!!~

YOU ARE ONLY 14?????

you sure or not??

self control is the name of the game CSG...

it's difficult... but it can be done...

don't give up....

and don't go start looking for a bf after they know what have you been doing...

I shudder to think what will happen then...

take care now!!

ciao!~

Murphy SG

It alright....one of my fren also do that...it nothing and try not to do it so often.....she also probe me this question....

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stringray SG

Hmmm.......another of your way to know gal????

Heeheehee :p :p :p

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Murphy SG

hi am i that buaya as u stingray......i just say that my real life frens also has this problem...both of them is a guy and a gal...so they ask me for advice....and i'm just helping ok....

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sutats SG

This has go to be the funniest topic so far.
Man, you people are sick f*cks. Hahahha

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dreamingspires SG

what’s wrong with doing it everyday? Which century are you pple living in?

fedora SG

Can'tStopGal: It's not abnormal. Just that it's not healthy either. I mean u're 14 and should be enjoying ur childhood!

I know that 14 is a time that u are beginning to find out more about the birds and the bees and ur sexuality but trust me, u have more years of adulthood than childhood.
Making masturbation a nightly affair is affecting ur daily life, making u tired and dull. Stop thinking about it and u will stop doing it.

The others who commented b4 me have very very good suggestions and advice =) Take heed and u will be fine. Take care..

prodigal SG

What I think you need is to talk to a counsellor. If not, engage yourself in other activities like sports or hobbies. U should learn to live a healthy life instead of worrying about it. It is just a process of growing up, so dun worry about it...

mikegk_76 SG

of course it's not abnormal to musturbate, but a 14yr old girl like u, r u sure? Shouldn't u b concentrating with your schwork and ECAs rather than having time to musturbate, Think the best solution is still SELF-CONTROL, ok? Do u have a bf by the way, huh? Tell him abt it and see how he views it...

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

aaron84z SG

Well, Masterbating is normal, masterbating every night but be a bit common, but don't worry, you're not abnormal. You say that it saps up your energy and time to do other things ... then try not to do it so often, concentrate on yr CCA or schoollife ... 14 is the year to enjoy man ! Not to worry with this kinda problems ... Go out and live your live to the max ! Gather with your friends more often !

Or even call someone up, you might end up knowing some thing you never knew about him/her =)

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Atti SG

Oh mind, only 14 and have been masturbating for 2 yrs....... that's kinda young isn't it, and already so deep into such things......

Dun think u r abnormal as in masturbating everyday. But then, like what yr friend has point out, too much of it will make u look restless and tired, chances of aging older are faster too......

Read from a mag b4 that masturbation actually relives some stress but too much of it is defintely not going to help. These's no way others can help you to stop other than yrself...... try praticsing some self control, or keep yrself busy in other activities so that the urge wun be so big.

Keep in mind u r only 14, i am sure u dun wanna look like 25 when u r 18, do you? And also, u r under age for certain act, do bear in mind.

Nevertheless, wishing u good health and hopefully, leading a more healthy life.

Regards

Bear SG

It norm I think, Things will change as u get older...

actually experts say that pple live longer if sexually aroused. Well, u can't possibly get married at this time. But still they also mentioned that having too much will affect daily life. Very Happy

Ur tiredness is not due the the energy loss, but due to the insufficent sleep at night I suppose... Coz the saying that u feel shagged is actually a false belief, just that it's late at night usually that u do such things.

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Doenitz SG

so young so desperate already sigh...
if u like it so much rite,might as well try the real thing riite?
go n sign on with a social escort agency!
hahahahaha

zzg24 SG

That's nothing wrong with that.
If you like it,just do it.
It is healthy and no one say it is harmful to health.