Hi
Self intro first, I am a 20 year old guy. Actually I also faced
similar masturbation problem during the age between 12 to about
15++. Just like you, I find it hard to control myself and just
wanting to do it often, very often maybe worse, 3 times a day I can
still remember and lasting 3 months after which I start to tone
down. The worst thing was my results during exams are just like
roller coaster! I felt guilty over it, at times I ask myself what
the f*** am I doing, is this my real nature? NO, I have to fight
this thought. My mind was strong enough to prevent myself from
doing wrong things. So I start to keep myself BUSY with work. I
took up taekwondo, and learn self discipline. Then I posed up
another challenge for myself, if I can resist the masturbation urge
for 1 day, I will reward myself with something, like buyin some
ice-cream to eat. As time goes by, I lengthened my challenge, I can
still remember my highest record was 1 month without masturbation,
from then I know I have succeeded in self control. Nowadays, I can
easily stop masturbation for 3 weeks, even under the influence of
porn pics. I am not joking, serious.
I kept telling myself that I would not want my parents to worry
about me unduly, that's the spirit that keep me fighting on with
the temptation.
Trust me, if I can do it, so can you, the key once again, KEEP
URSELF BUSY, at the end of the day, you will feel tired. Even a
dick in front of you, u will show no interest in it after a tired
day. Or you can go running everything you start to have the
thoughts, run for a kilometre or 2. U will be damn tired and also,
try not to be alone in the house, be around with your family or
rather if your mother go out to the market, follow her, then you
will have no time to think about it. Or you can also ask ur
classmates out for revision. Most importantly, never never get bf
at this point of the time until you have learn to conquer ur
masturbation thoughts. Serious, I have seen a case of tragedy of
what can happened if the urge is not under control. I will
with-held the name of the case I have seen for privacy
purpose.
Once again, wish you luck, YOU CAN FIGHT IT!! =0)
Yours sincerely
Grey ( A mix of good and evil )
