BigJoke SG Approached this gal abt 6 weeks back and got her number. she seemed responsive at first before the date. however, she seemed less responsive and said to be frens for now. at first i asked if it was a rejection she said no and that she juz wanted to know me better first. she is giving herself and me a chance but dun wanna get involved in such things coz she recently broke up with her ex and also not searching for a bf now. she continues to date me one on one and never turns any down unless she is really busy. we sms/icq each other and she will initiate contact if i stop contact for a couple of days. the problem is that she seems to be giving mixed signals. she never turns down my dates but when we meet she dun really seem to be very vocal and interested in conversation. however, she dun seem to mind my company as we can sit ard or wander abt for hours. she doesnt even mind shopping wif me. no physical contact with her coz i respect the fact that she wants to be frens for now but we walk real close together. wat is she thinking?...wat is her level of interest?....you all think i stand a chance? ...should i wait and see?... wat should be the best course of actions now? ...or should i juz move on....
misswho SG if she said "frens for now" ...then be her fren! Better not ask her to decide. Let Nature takes its course! Just do wat a fren should do n gv wat a fren should give! Show your sincerity ...... I'm sure she'll be touch not now but later when she sees how much effort u put in... gd luck
Yunhaier SG She is reacting in such a way BECAUSE.... Firstly: She is undergoing relationship changes. Secondly - one mistake there - zero communiction, but can wander around for nothing. What does the second part shows? Its simply shows that she is indecisive about YOU and waiting for you to do something if you wanted her. Let me tell you, if the communication channel is up, things will be clearer and easier for you. She choose to give you chance to go out with her signal 3 possibilities. First: She really has nothing to do and needed that company Second: She needed someone around to clear her mind of her ex. Third: She is giving you a chance My advice is remain as friends - yes, strike in the dark. Open up communication and add humor into it. If you want to be like friends - act and speak like a good one - from there, you will be attempting to make her realise what she really wants. If you wait and wait and wait and wait.... *continues till xmas* ... chances are you will lose this battle. Not asking you to take rash moves, but intelligent emotional moves so that you could execute your good moves, when you needed them in the future. Cheers
BigJoke SG ha…i guess i am not putting much efforts in chasing her now…i juz ask her out every weekend and sms/icq each other every other day….and i dun flood her wif cuite mses…ha…
Xiao Long Nu SG maybe she is just being frenly maybe she is givin u chance maybe she is nw trying...(ri jiu sheng qin) maybe u r jus her acompiyment...
BigJoke SG i asked her b4 and she said that she is giving me a chance and also herself one...the funny thing is that she is not responive...talk to her when we out also most of the time i initiate the convo...seems enthu abt going out wif me but once out she like quite quiet....weird....
mylow SG Let nature takes its own sweet course. I know it's a bit frustrating now to actually wait and see. But seems like there isn't any choice for you except to ask her again. However by asking her again now, could jeopardize the whole situation. Also don't test her ... Leave everything as it is. Or even set her free. If she is meant to be yours, she will come back to you. Else, no matter how you pursue her ... she will never be with you.
misswho SG maybe she is shy n doesn't know what to say to u give her sometime to know u better.... must have some patience la
Xiao Long Nu SG when girls quiet sudenly means they tinkin tings..... this is crucial if she say she is givin u chance...tis period is crucial...depends alot on ur performance liao....cos if she tries to be wit u and realy u nv give her any feeling...tats it..
TZR SG i think maybe ur conversation doesn't interest her at all... maybe she think u tok cock... lolx... say and tok things farnie... find out what she interested in, tok abt it lah. make her laugh~ joke~ hehe
Xiao Long Nu SG i once see a chinese long phrase says... a man mus be rich...if nt mus b kind a man mus be kind ..if nt mus b frenly a man mus be frenly..if nt mus be humourous a man mus be humourus if nt mus be intelligent a man mus be intelligent, if nt mus be cool a man mus be cool...if nt mus be cute etc etc forgt the whole liao
Firenze SG Nobody here could tell you what she's thinking & give u possibly answers for all the questions. What i can say is that she can play any game, anytime she want. It's like today she says she likes Zhou Jie Lun, but tomorrow she can turn it round & say she likes F4. U just need know how to control your feelings.. This Is Important.. Dont lose the "game" too early..
marlboro SG you think thats weird? the gal rejected me yet is very "responsive", totally opposite of ur case...
