these are all good advice. but i got another one.
forget it. unless you know where she lives or haf a phone number,
you dun haf a shot at getting to her this time. the more you deny
this, the more its gonna hurt.
i guess if you wanna be normal, you'd rather feel hurt in like 2
years before finally getting over her. this is what you are doing
NOW. its counterproductive, but heck, you're doing it anyway.
i dun wanna confuse you with big stories like miracles do happen or
love will find a way or sth like that. i'd like to get straight to
the problem.
ur character.
ur character dun haf that much guts to approach her and at least
talk to her. dun need to tell her you're in love with her or sth
like that, unless you want a slap in the face. play your words.
give her a clue. try hinting her. thats where u haf to be
creative.
creativity is also part of your character which is built from ur
ego. in fact, both guts and creativity is built from ur ego. if a
guy doesn't have ego or confidence, it seems fate has made it a
fair trial by not giving you a chance with her. and so u just miss
ur chance?
what do u do?
build your confidence. learn from your failure dun dwell on
it.
here i lay down the chances for u. unless you haf any means of
contact with her, you have 0 chance. but if you do, then go for it.
failure only comes to those who never try. but plan ahead. be
sneaky about it. take things in control. dun just do as u feel, ur
feelings betray u. think of the outcomes.
sorry man, i dun define life, this isn't life. its just the way
things are. dun think too much about love. just like the person.
love gives you all the headaches. in fact, love is only positive in
fairytales. dun stay lost in it. nobody can sustain high emotions
for too long. they will be in doubt forever in life after
that.
stay in the clear track. if ur a man, dun weep.