hey girl, can see that
u treasure your bf lotz, but now u are in a situation whereby you
yourself are hitting your own foot with a stone, or maybe i should
say rock...well, some guys/girls are blinded when they are in a
relationship...maybe during that time, your bf really loved her but
it may be due to other reasons, such as peer pressure, as
well..
him and his ex are a thing of the past...dun bother yourself with
such things, from what you have said, if you keep hovering over
this topic, your bf will get very irritated sooner or
later...
since he has rejected her offer to have sex with her, it shows that
you have an important place in his heart...at least he did not
betray you (but then, there's no way of telling 
) ... but i must
emphasize, an important aspect in a r/s is trust...
do you know? guys dun really like girls who keep harping over
insignificant stuff and over the same topic? if he says something,
take it to be that thing...unless one day bump into him with the
girl or something, or when he starts neglecting you for no reason,
maybe that's the time you should start worrying...
for the time being, i see no reason why you should feel so insecure
feel more confident ya?
