Bf's past keep bothering Mi!

WinBoi84 SG

Me is Zhong... Wink

xavier1979 SG

So many "Uncle Agony"s... No nid for me to add somemore... Mr. Green

jOhO SG

the person that can gimme warmth exudes that from within my heart.

if the heart is warm, being physically frozen is impossible... Embarassed

star princess SG

i canot keep myself from thinking n asking abt his past... i very insecure lah[/b]

hi, you HAVE to stop yourself from thinking this way (please try)(very hard) or it will affect your relationship with your bf.

Trust me, i was like you too. I even have nightmares very often at night that my bf and that gal have sex and i often caught them on the bed and i will run out of the room and cry and yet my bf doesnt' care about chasing after me and to console me.

It affected me so much that i didn't want to talk to my bf after the nightmare. I will cry whenever i awoke from the nightmare.

Devil1976 SG

One piece of ADVICE.... Don't waste your breath in this situation.... Rolling Eyes

WinBoi84 SG

So zh3nzh3n how u and z0ngz0ng le? Everything sorted out? Rolling Eyes

TZR SG

u love him now or his past? u love him now why u care about his past?

U ask urself lor, r u also that pure in ur past life? u did nothing wrong b4 mah? If ur bf also mind abt ur past, so whats the point?

Reflect this on urself man.. whats past is past, u tok so much, it also won't change.... if u mind, then find a guy with a good past... which i think its impossible...

zh3nzh3n SG

Yep, everything's alrite... thanx for ya concern~ Very Happy

WinBoi84 SG

Welcome... Wink

steph`- SG

wahaha. agreed to the max... but they okie liao. still dovey lovey in forums l0ls.
Yeah.. u love him not his past..
So why bother
But can see his tolerance and patience quite high.. can stand the ger for 5 yrs.. meaning he's a gd guy..
So... its not tt bad after all... blessings to both of u

Stephanie

fuyumi SG

U love him for what he is now..not for what he was. Its time he learn to forgiv n forget abt the ex..same thing matters..he loving u now..not living in the life with his ex.
*hint* asking too much of the past is not doing mucj good favour for the present..it may even turn out nasty..sometimes

BrenBren SG

zh3nzh3n

HI, I do not experience this kind of things b4 but just to offer some points of views.

Everyone has their past. You should put the past behind you can continue with your life with your BF. No guys like thier GF to keep bringing up tis past, esp if his past is not a present one.I am sure you will be piss off if he did the same to you. I think as long as he is faithful to you and love you now and the future, then it should be alright. You must remember that it is your relationship btwn him and you now and not his ex and him.A good relationship should only consist of the 2 involved parties and no one else.

May Happiness be with you 2.

BrenBren

Bryan^ SG

unhappy memories shld not b mention lor…cos it really hurts n really cannot forget 1 lor….sometimes its to pai seh to talk abt….very pek cek 1 leh…me n my gf both have worst past then him but we also last so long…..at least he told u his past n u noe abt it….wad else sia….u shld b happy n carry on….heart itchy cos u wan to noe every single little bit then make both unhappy…even if he sae all out u also not happy 1…..so best left dunno…nothing to sae 1….be gd gal continue wif him

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