Hi all, just got some questions to ask.....well, been inside my
mind for quite long. Sometimes, I really wonder....is it really
true that only "Duo Qing Ren" will then get to be noticed by
females out there. My "Duo Qing Ren" here meant normally, playboys.
Sometimes... these people are not very handsome, how come they
still managed to get some many victims to bed?? I am not trying to
ask how to get females to bed, I am just want to know if that are
good guys nowadays not being appreciated by females? Why?? Is it
that they lack of experience or what? To me, I admit lah huh, I
never went on date before, I don't know why, maybe because I was
shy when in secondary and too indulge in my schoolwork when I am in
Poly. But now, I am 21++ liao. But leh....it seems that although, I
am not those kind of "Duo Qing Ren", and also, I am quite "gui ju",
how come no one seems to notice me huh?? Is it because I am too
short, say around 1.63m? Or is it because nowadays, females prefer
to go for flirtish guy?? I really don't understand how come they
are so willing to give themselves to those jerks and eventually
kenna ditched?? I mean what's the rationale behind it? 
Some hope someone can answer this, is it true that REAL NICE GUYS
on the street are never appreciated and if you want to get one of
the girl of your dreams, never put in 100%, 20% is enough since you
should ditch her after you are tired of her?? Funny question,
though I used to tell myself, never mind someday I will be
appreciated, but I think it is time to ask myself again, is it
really worth it to be a nice guy? Who knows if you are nice or not,
even a wolf in a sheep clothing might be having a life much better
than mine. Basket them..... N do ppl really appreciates the good
things you do or rather they will start stepping over you once they
know you can be stepped all over without retailating? If this is
so, I am really tired of being a good guy, as the saying goes, "Hao
Ren Nan Zhuo", being a "Hao Nan Ren Ge Jia Nan Wei"..... Females
out there, hope to get your response...... you need lah, at least
need to find out where the problems lied in me or rather is there
really any.
