netgurl12 SG dOEs lOOks mAttEr In mAkIng fRenS i sEE ppl AlwAys thInk thAt thOsE whO r chIO wIll mAkE it bEtter thAn e nOt so chIo OnEs
Parka SG Not neccesary. Once you look pass the exterior, everything is different. Maybe it's because everyone is grown up already or what. But I feel that during schooling times, when making friends is some sort of a "compulsory?" or unavoidable thing. You will find that looks doesn't really matter once you get to know the person.
trlnlty SG oh well that is the sad truth in life.. thats why first impressions are the most important
Yunhaier SG People who made this statement tends to either be inferior in character because for your information - people who are generosity with money will find more people flocking to them than good looks. I know of many people who may look average, but they made real good friends. So does looks matters in 'making' better friends than those average looking... i doubt so. The only thing good looks has its point is when opposite (or same for rare cases) gender would want to approach you BECAUSE you look appealing to them. This has nothing to do with being and making a good friend, because these people finds you APPEALING and they have this sexual, spiritual urge/wanting to know you. If you envy people who are pretty in such a way and know that you can't look as good - work on your character - because people does get attracted with people of good soul. If you want to have a good wide social circle - you just have to be confident in the way you present yourself. Woman with confident, people sees it right away and would respect you for the way you are, not because of certain traits. Cheers
xavier1979 SG Guys are lazy. We dun spend much time into knowing girls. Hence, looks become an easy criterion for us to ‘select’ friends…
netgurl12 SG hey,im not inferior in character or wad Juz that i had 2 frens n tis happened to them..so im just wondering,,,is looks really that important....
steph`- SG hmm... looks do matter .. pple always look for the first impression u give.. it's very realistic.. However, if u're toking abt making frens, i tink looks dun matter at all.. cos frens, we look for characters.. Tell ur 2 frens not to be discouraged.. if their frens are looking for looks , den they're not frens to be made with at all.. cos true frens dun look for tt..
Yunhaier SG I am not saying you... I am saying your friends who made you wonder about this question. You are what you believe... if they think good looks will make it better than those who are ain't, it will affect them. If you feel that people should know and befriend you for WHO you ARE, not NOT what you SEEMED, hypocritical people are more likely to shun you isn't it?
