My Ang Mo bf

last SG · 2002-09-13T13:30:18+00:00

Yes, u are rite... i am stil naive and playful as i realli cant make up my mind. But i am not exactly depending on him for a living. He wanted me to get som...

barbie SG

I got to know my Ang Mo bf last year. We have been together for about 1 year. At first, i tot we wont be together for long as he is an Ang Mo. As most of us think that foreign guys who come here to work wont take relationship seriously. They just need a companion when they are here and they will definitely go back to their country to find a serious partner.

I alwaz think in this way that's why i dun take this relationship seriouly. Wink But seriously speaking, i am one who dun usually take relationship seriouly such as i will wait for my bf to call me, i wont call him and i dun treat him as good as my other friens. I dun care much for him and dun wish to meet him often maybe only like once or twice a week. I treat all my past bfs all da same. They alwaz say i neglect them and dun care abt them. That's why all my past relationship didn last long. Smile Anyway, i also dun care much coz i usually get bored after some time. Razz

I treated my present Ang Mo bf da same way as i treated my past bfs. He has been working here for some years then one day, he told me he's leaving coz his contract has ended. He told me, he wish that i can go back to europe with him. I was shocked ! coz i never thought that he will ask me to leave with him as i treated him in dat way. And i never tot of a having a serious relationship in my life. I just want someone to keep me company and make me happy when i am sad. When i heard it, i was really speechless. As i never tot a guy will say these things to me. Then i asked him, "why do u treat me so good?" he said, "i really love u very much and wish that u can come with me to europe." WOW! i was really really happy then, dunno wat to say. btw, i didn reply him.

From then onwards, i meet him almost everyday but i am still seriously thinking about this relationship. Such as do i really love him that much? Am i really ready for a serious relationship? I realli cant make up my mind. he has not left but i think i will go there and treat it as a holiday first and see what will happen. Wink

What do all of u think of Ang Mo? Is he really serious with me? Would like to hear your opinions about my relationship.

barbie SG

xavier1979 SG

Ask yourself this: Are you willing to forego your friends and family here to start a new life elsewhere in a foreign land, to know new friends, to merge into a different family???

Simple question, but do think it over. Smile

e|mo SG

worse is after you left europe with him, shortly after...he dumped you for another gal. *sighz* Sad

tiggersgd SG

maybe not all ang mos like that leh? but u should at least get to know his family background, friends and such. this is long term nu ren. did he ever mention to you his family or introduce u to his friends when you guys are outside?

barbie SG

I dun mind starting a new life in a foreign land and to make new friends but the main problem is... i realli dun wish to settle down so early coz i think i am stil very young. I will just treat it as a holiday 1st... Wink

greengoblin SG

Ehhh….hope it is just relation and not more than that man….

e|mo SG

ya not all the guys are like dat.. you got to know his background well. think there's a case where a girl got murdered in foreign country... by his her hubby. Neutral

barbie SG

Den no choice lor.. back to my singapore and lead normal life. At least i stil hav sweet memories and get to experience life in Europe.. Wink

e|mo SG

glad you can take it easy... but saying is always easier than actions. anyway, wish you all the best... juz follow your heart. and don't regret it... (it's better to regret something you have done rather than you never do) Mr. Green

Devil1976 SG

Cool Real cheerful girl you are..?

barbie SG

Y do u hope dat? Do u think our relationship wont last?

barbie SG

Smile Maybe.. yes, he told me abt his family. He has his own house in Europe, his mom is staying in another house. Ya, i noe iz long term taz why i am not prepared at all and would just like to go there for a holi 1st and c hoz things will happen. Yep, he introduce me to his friends when we are outside.

barbie SG

Shocked But i dun tink he will be so bo liao ... da least i attack him back lor n c who die 1st... Laughing

barbie SG

Wink Thank U! Me also think so. Laughing yes, u r rite.. i will definitly go there.. if realli not suitable, den no choice......... at least i tried bfor. Smile

barbie SG

Laughing alright lah.. juz take things easy n njoy life to da fullest... wanna try as much things as possible since i am stil young. Wink

Si|verGer SG

i tin best is u go over wif him 4 sumtime c if it reli suit u ant lor if it does it worth but if not den u can drop tis idea mah..it better to try den to regret dat u forgo tis chance of trying to c Wink

joanne SG

hi, can i ask how old are you? i realise that you didnt mention if you would face any parental objection so family objection..

hmm, i dun think that he is out to cheat you, if you really love him and is willing to stay with him for life, then y not settle down rite? Very Happy

xavier1979 SG

Hehehe... Gd thinking... Cool

barbie SG

Smile Thanx! I am only 21 years old. I think there shouldn be any problem as i am alwaz very independent and my parents gave me lotz of freedom. If i really make up mind, noboby can change, not even my parents. It's my own life, nobody can control. Laughing

He told me that if i didn go Europe, he will come back to look for me. He said, "I can come back to Singapore and stay some time at hotel but if u go Europe, we have a big house." Very Happy

I wish to be with him but i am stil very young and not sure whether i really love him enough and be able to live with him. Anyway, i never tot of this... just wanna go there and treat it as a holiday.. Wink