Should one think before commit in a relationship?

last SG · 2002-10-02T09:15:26+00:00

think... personally i think it is yes... why?? cause if you think it over (presumebly u think it correctly)... you would consider lots of factors lor.... l...

elaine` SG

Would a relationship last longer if one think carefully before commiting him/herself in the relationship? Or should we follow our heart?

Cristalle SG

take each step at a time….

www SG

Originally posted by elaine`:

Would a relationship last longer if one should think carefully before commiting him/herself in the relationship? Or should we follow our heart?

always.

mapp|ezz SG

bt anything can happen

www SG

of course Laughing

just that the odds of it becoming a good relationsip weighs better when you actually think thru it carefully.

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mapp|ezz SG

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wad was tat for? Mr. Green

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Laughing
multiple posts. was trying to empty the content of those duplicated posts but screwed it up instead.

mapp|ezz SG

hehe i Rolling Eyes

mapp|ezz SG

hehe i Rolling Eyes

jOhO SG

i dun think there's a sure way to say it'd last longer, but i guess it's something that we all should think about nevertheless...

i've been in VERY fulfilling and loving relns that started off without thinking and in great deal of uncertainty... so there's no sure thing.. but it's the "correct" thing to do i guess..

too much of anything isn't good too mind u, think think think.. sometimes nike has got it right.. "just do it"

malphax SG

Yes... if not for anything else... at least show some consideration for the other party... Considering the worst case scenario... not everyone can take a break up that well... some will take years to recover...

some fall in love with a carefree attitude... make or break, they can take it... some fall in love, thinking it is "happily ever after"... only to be rudely awakened when it is all over...

Last but not least... think of yourself... post heartbreak can be a very trying time... you might have what it takes to pull you through, but do you want to go through the experience?

xavier1979 SG

Depends on what you want in a relationship.

If you want it to last past marriage, then plan for long-term.

If you are just in for the sweetness, then follow your heart.

Devil1976 SG

Balance between the two... But it's always EASIER said than DONE.... Rolling Eyes

elaine` SG

Yup, I am taking one step at a time.

elaine` SG

My heart is already there but whether I should accept him is what I am thinking.

elaine` SG

Balance between the 2, I suppose can be done as long as I don't regret of the choice that I've made?

startrightnow SG

let nature take it course

elaine` SG

Yup, like me, I know I'll take years to recover. Love can make me weak at times.

xavier1979 SG

No one can know what might happen in the future. You are the one to decide. Just don't regret.