1st : get to know someone thru frenz ... IRC ... ICQ ...
e-mailings ... penpal ... or whatever communications shit ... or
even a stranger from the streets ...
2nd : be a frenz ... dun get into relationship fast ... * getting
into relation fast will eventualy end up fast ... (what i
observe)
3rd : understand him/her well ... understand him inside out if
he/she is the one you been searching for
4th : try to hint him/her about your impressions ...
5th : if his/her impressions is good ... then you got hope to start
a relations ... if not ... you all know lah ... in the end get hurt
also you yourself and no one else ...
What i think of ... correct me if i am wrong ...