well autumn,
since u juz graduate from a degree, do take a short break. i myself
took a short break as well when i juz got into the society. i look
4 part time jobs....while working part time....i slowly look for
the rite job i wan. this is not a big prob unless u r desperate for
$$.
as for the guy, if he treated u good enuf, u shldn't stop ur
contacts wif him even though u dun like him. the guy may feel bad
if u do so.
i was one of the victim who is feeling depress when the girl i'm
fond of avoided me. i treat this as a past. so wat ever girls who r
wif me and i dun have feelings for her, i will not avoid her. even
she made initiative, i have my ways to stop it. do care for the
guys feeling. dun be selfish....ok??
good luck.....