i'm single now, and most of my frens are attached, or
married.
i just assume, with no hard feelings at all, that their priority
would be their gfs or wives. if we go do "guy things" like mj (some
gals play too i guess but my kakis are all guys with gf/wife that
dun play), snooker, go out drink with the guys and even test drive
cars (i went today!) then that's great but if they can't make it
then nevermind lar. i accept the fact that they put priority to
their gfs or wives but that doesn't mean they only come to me when
they are bored. and even IF they do come to me when they are bored
so wat? i believe that if i'm in deep shit, they will be the first
to come by my side, whether they have a wife or gf (or both!! eheh)
actually i dun just believe, i know, becos it's been proven.
by the same token, when i have a gf i will spend alot alot of time
with her. once in a while i will see my other frens, and that would
be cool with them. if they raise the siren, then u'll see me fly to
their side. and sirens aren't raised that often.
and btw, when i was attached, we always went out as a group. who
says u can't go out with ur gf/wife AND ur frens. one of the most
important things in a reln is that my gf and my close frens get
along. so far so good. and it goes both ways. my frens got along
well with my previous gfs, and i get along well with most of my
frens gfs...
