sad and angry i'm with u... but not about the part where i will
make my gf hate her exes...
firstly, if she finds out that i did that, she'd also hate me! that
risk is too high for me to bet, and cmon.. think about it, wat sort
of human are u to hate someone, and trying to get someone else to
hate the person too.
another thing about exes, is that they are part of someone's past.
i believe the past is an education. who i am today is becos of my
past. if a gal falls in love with me right now, she's falling in
love with me, a person that is who i am becos of wat i went thru in
the past. if my past were different, parts (of course not all) of
my personality, views, opinions, principles, would be different and
she might not fall for me anymore.
so (for a guy) your gf's ex shouldn't be a threat or someone u
hate. yes i'm sure some of u may come across trying experiences
with a gal becos of her ex (eg. she may not want to trust u becos
of wat her ex did to her b4). if u are a better man, she will see
it, and patience and communication helps. on the other hand, if she
allows herself to succumb to the negative implications of past
memories, rather than learning from them and be armed with the
experience to carve a path for a better tomorrow, then she may not
be the type of gal you're looking for. definitely not the type i'm
looking for i'll give u that!
