My gf and i have been together for 1 yr while now (her parents
know i'm with her) she is in Aust studying for her degree. Along
with her are 2 guys from her poly tagging along with her. (staying
under 1 roof). 1 of them has been waiting for her for the past 5
years. (sorry guys/gals if u heard this b4)
Just last week something bad happen. M guy (Starts
with his surname) fell off the balcony from the 3rd level where
they stay together in the hostel. Ever since my gf Y has been
blaming herself for his accident. My gf didn't tell M's family abt
it until the next day when M needed to have an operation (in Aust).
She called them, soon enough M's family flew from S'pore to Aust.
M's family blame her (indirectly) for not informing them earlier.
But from wht i heard from my gf is tht it is M who doesn't wish to
inform his parents. And yet when M's family saw him lying in the
hospital, he did not clarify with his parents abt the reason behind
the delay. (R maybe he wasn't aware) Anyway now my gf withdrew
herself in self pity.
Micheal another guy who tag along with them for
studies, didn't help out with the registration of hospital and
ambulance during tht day of incident. (What an asshole)
My gf did the procedure of registration, calling
the ambulance, inform M's parents and guide them around from
hospital to their hostel and back. All this while she didn't have
the time to study for her papers which is due 2 weeks later.
We spoke on the phone yesterday (i called her
after she msg me, she in Aust, we spoke for 1 hr. My hp bills gonna
be damn ex) She was crying on the other line telling me she was
stress up, can't focus, can't concentrate to study...
My plan to her was to cut short her studies and
cum to S'pore to study. She can stay in my house if her parents
starts to nag at her.
Am i being to selfish to ask her to stop studying
in Aust since she is so stress up with studies there and cum back
to Spore to work n study with me? She get to stay in my room if she
wants. At least in S'pore i m here to support her, a shoulder to
cry on, help her in her studies. Provide physical n emotional
support. She said no.
Her reason, her parent paid $40 000 for her
studies, she would be letting them down if she were to quit now and
study in Spore. She told me i wouldn't understand of the
consequences lies ahead if she were to quit her studies in Aust to
study in Spore. She couldn't stand the pressure tht her parents
would gif her if she cums back. Would her parents forced her to
study without knowing it could lead her to commit suicide? Would
her parents allow this to happen?
Instead of the 1 1/2 year in Aust now she is dropping a
few modules which could mean 2 years in Aust to study. Wht the fuck
the more time she spend in Aust the more $$ she would hve to spend
to stay there. And yet her parents support tht.
My gf told me to be prepare if I didn't hear any
news from her no more. She told me she would commit suicide if she
feels to stress up and pressurise. What am i as a bf ought to do? I
working 4 jobs to study my degree next year hopping she would be
back by the time i get enough $$ to study. I told her to think b4 i
hang up, i would sacrifice anything for u to cum back to study with
me. But if u wish to sacrifice everything to see God earlier, by
all means go ahead. I told her to think abt it.
Guys u tell me, if u were in my situation wht would u do. Abandon
her to her own downfall r stay by her hopping she would turn round
and be back with me?
Gals u tell me would u sacrifice ur studies and ur parents to be
with ur bf who is willing to support u n b by ur side throughout
working n studying together? R would u face the death, running away
from studies and ur parent's face. Would u go ahead and study n
force urself to study to save ur parents face?
I 
'm actually quite pissed with her thinking abt going
to die as an easy way out. Is it so hard for her to drop her
studies in Aust to cum n join me working n studying in Spore. She
told me i'm being immature and it wouldn't work out. But wht would?
Me working n studying and she forcing herself to study under
pressure from parents and her trauma seeing M falling off the
balcony, in time she would commit sucide?
Help me i felt like breaking up with her, I'm taking 4
jobs is hard enough for me physically and now this emotional drag
by her. I'M GOING CRAZY!!!!
