30+ years old ... izzit too late to find a gf ???

last SG · 2002-09-03T10:27:56+00:00

There is alot of gals in IRC who is ard your age ... try harder and you will find one soon ... in fact i know a gal at the age of 28 thru IRC ... good luck

maxyeo SG

neber into any relationship b4 … izzit too late ???

www SG

its never too late. Smile

maxyeo SG

but those gers that suits my ages either married or attached .... and younger gers wun be interested .... Neutral

www SG

u could be wrong. some like older men. Smile

maxyeo SG

some ? I think very rare ..... Sad I'm over mid 30s .....

www SG

maybe u just havent met the right one.
but if you are really eagar to have a gf, try SDS or SDU.
they have good success rate on matching couples. Smile

maxyeo SG

sometimes I wonder the right one exist or not ........ Confused

SDU ??? need paper qualification ... I dun hv

www SG

how abt SDS? www.sds.gov.sg

maxyeo SG

some of my frens r members ..... till now still single .... Neutral

www SG

u cant expect to strike for sure when you buy 4D for the first time. Mr. Green

try actively participate in their outings. if possible, reduce your requirements and you should be able to find someone suitable in no time. Smile

maxyeo SG

my requirement actually very simple ….. as long as can click … easy going and down to earth ….

User Name SG

Simple? The 'can click' part is difficult liao lor.. Laughing

Best advice: expand your social circle

maxyeo SG

trying too …... where do u think is the best place to expand social circle ??

User Name SG

Just some suggestions, hope u find useful

pick up some hobbies and join in some group activities, like dancing (ball room dancing, etc)? Go to church (GREAT place to know many many girls)? Wink Join SDS (as mentioned above) Your frd cant get gf doesnt mean u cant ok? Many BGR started becoz of friends' intro, so u should make lots of friends (but i guess u have trouble achieving this huh?).

hmm... another thing is to try to understand how come til now u CANT find a gf? The source of your problem - isit becoz u are shy, anti-social, have some bad habits, hot-headed, dont know how to express urself, mix only wif guys, etc etc? Try to find out the problem, and if possible change yourself to be more 'attractive' (not only in looks) to girls.

Just my 2c

Si|verGer SG

no it not to late...mayb u can join some outing clubs or wad? ask ur frenx recommand? or go in irc to chat & knw more frenxs? Rolling Eyes

tonytan77 SG

30yrs too late? Don’t worry, I just face a competitor who is 30yrs (born in 1972) is in love with a 20yrs mei-mei (born in 1981).

maxyeo SG

Yes ... I'm shy ... dunno how to express myself ... most of my frens r guys ....... and my circles of frens very small ....

maxyeo SG

my circles of frens very limited .... I quit irc a year ago ....wasted too much time in irc ...

MetalGear SG

Gd luck man.... u are in deep shit! I be very frank with u from what u said, u are in serious trouble cause at ur age, u are already in trouble. u haven gotten into a relationship, so u dun know how to handle one(practiacl exp is alwaz better than theoretical), ppls by ur age should be at least getting ready to settle down with that steady one and u haven found one! not that i am laughin at u but u know u better take quick action if u wanna find one soon.

like what the other pple said, find new social areas to expand your social circle. this is important too. A fisherman cannot alwaz put his net in the same place or keep casting same area, need to cast in the river, lake, ocean.. hope u get my meaning!

Read up alot of books on self-improvement, grooming, presentation... etc Concentrate on your career and education still. U need money since now u have less youth and looks.

maxyeo SG

I know I'm in deep shit ..... 1 of my fren said he will remain single for the rest of his life if he's in my shoe ......