I don know how U can change hinm Clara, as for me. I know I am
umb. basically, cause I used to be so very independ, I expect my
g/f to be likewise as I still wish to carry on my own life, I mean
normal relationship with my friends (not refering to girls lah).
just to remain in touch with them.. but g/f is possessive lor.. I
only understand and realised years later.... anyway, I leave far
away from her... me in central , her in East. in the end , I ended
up sending her home and returning home taking the last bus...
AS for him, you need patient, really, all the more when he is
living so close to you. guess U may have already except the way he
is.....