Love is Impossible

alensoh SG

I’ve recently like a girl very much and would like to be tied with her for life..but she said she got no feelings and this relationship is impossible between us. She never even try and she just say that she dun feel like trying.I feel so sad…I don’t even know what to do next, just helplessly waiting and hope that she’ll eventually accept me.What should i do…I’m in a lost now…

MoNsTer SG

there is nuting u can do. i once read a book its abt falling in and falling out of love. u dun choose who u fal in love with.. love choose to go to who... hope u know wat i mean... if she have no feelings for u at this pt of life.. there is nuting u can do to make her fal in love.. even if she fal in love with u after u have done alot.. its may be she LIKES ur accompany and the way u care.. that is not love.

love is abt being able to give the person up.. as long as he/she is happi.. being in love do not mean he/she have to be ur bf/gf, going steady.. being in love is abt sacrifing and asking for nuting in return.

how many pple really know what is love, or whether are they really in love? how many pple can really love another person and not lost its 1 self... .. None i tink is the ans...

AngelDark SG

move on

Si|verGer SG

hmm ur quit msg v meaningful abit like mine~ keke Mr. Green
erm back to ur prob,erm mayb wad i going to say may sound bad but it quite true. hmm mayb not she dun 1 2 try but sumtime i guess u knw u met sum ger too & tis ger like u but sumtime u reli dun hv dat chemistry at all not even abit at all & in ur heart u knw she not ur type & u knw if u try to giv her chance it will hurt her more coz u giv flase hope to her.. so pls try to understand... Rolling Eyes

Tyris=Flare SG

This is classified as "rejection";pls look under topics on "how to overcome rejections"

Sorry for being so snappy in reply, but sometime you got to move on with life.

TZR SG

well said well said~!~! hehehe

/me clap clap clap~~~ Very Happy

Devil1976 SG

I remember when I was younger one of my aunts offered me a grape... I declined the offer immediately... She said,"Try it... It's not sour..." I still insisted on my stand... She gave the grape to my younger brother and asked,"So how? Sweet?" "Yes" came the reply.... "See..?" She looked at me.... I was thinking... It doesn't matter if the grape is sweet or sour, I just don't feel like having any grape at that moment... Get the point?

How ya like it when someone come up to you and tell you that you MUST be very thristy... How about finishing 2 litres at one shot...? How would you feel....?

Idea "It doesn't really matter if you can't get her love today? At least you don't make her hate you...?"

Givache SG

sometimes it is an excuse, but sometiems the girls really noe that it is impossible bcos they tink u r not the type she wants..

Evil or Very Mad Givache Twisted Evil

Si|verGer SG

sumtime it not reli xcuses lor if reli excuses i tin it will b like... i wana focus on my study lar, my mum dun alllow me 2 hv bf, i m too young lar..etc..
but 4 tis case reli lor mayb it juz bcoz the ger knw herself she dun like him at all & din 1 2 accept him to giv flase hope mayb it sound cruel but it better den she keep plying along or she agree to it but wen together 4 a period den she wana break dat v hurt even more coz hw will commit even more den nw... Sad Confused Neutral

alensoh SG

hmm...i also dunno what to do next...my friends ask me not to give up but you guys insist that i should give up...i'm at a lost..at first i want to wait till she finish her term tests next week before i go for another try but i alreadyy know the answer.maybe i should just give up and wish that she'll be happy with the next guy that comes into her life...
"|f U tRuLy LoVe a PerSoN,u WaN hEr tO b3 hApPy,EvEn |f |t mEaNs u VaNiSh|n From hEr LiFe." I think this quote means a lot of what i should do next...vanish from her life and let her be happy forever as i could only see her in my heart.

Si|verGer SG

hmm i nv hint u to give up u can try to ask her after her test but if the ans is negative den mayb "|f U tRuLy LoVe a PerSoN,u WaN hEr tO b3 hApPy,EvEn |f |t mEaNs u VaNiSh|n From hEr LiFe." is true lor.
anyway tis are our views,choice are still urs mah.. Wink

alensoh SG

Btw i've set up a new forum call Jurong West.. For west area ppl esp. staying in jurong can talk or post msges for outings in there...maybe can co,e out and chat or lim kopi at nearby kopitiam when free.. Laughing

AngelDark SG

true...

in other words it means...

"if u truely love a person, let him/her go, and if she comes back to u, then u noe that person loves u too..."

and in case of ppl loving another, we all know the best thing to do is to let the loved one be happy...

"ni kuai le, wo jiu kuai le"

but think.....

sometimes, such words and phrases, are juz teaching us to run away.... rite??

Dolce Vita SG

you'll find someone better! really.. Very Happy

besides, there's more things in life than love.. rejections are just part and parcel of life.. there's ups and downs in life, there would be better chances next time, if only you are willing to move on. Smile

G0D SG

uh, u can pray to me?

Jasonlizf SG

Girls are always unperdictable.. sometimes cold sometimes warm.. oh well.. that's a fact boy..

deathwish SG

Yah lor... When he commit he will be hurt even more when she initiates a breakup with him

deathwish SG

If u really dun wanna give up now, try asking 1 more time after her exams... If by then u still get a negative feedback u gotta move on

deathwish SG

Pai seh i post then see you post.... I posted abt the same thing Mr. Green

e|mo SG

u two lovers... think alike mah Mr. Green