Hey,
i'll try not to be biased, but somehow i can't help but to speak up
for the guys. I've been thru NS and I've changed.
When a girl first steps out into the world to work and the guy
steps into NS, the ger will then to 'mature' faster which i feel is
due to the enviroment which she is in.
On the other hand, the guy in NS is still discovering himself and
learning his limits. NS is at times pretty much abt conforming to
orders. Upon completition of NS, the guy now knows how to handle a
lot more things and maintain his cool. However until he works, he
will never put these 'hidden' discoveries which he has aquired in
his NS days.
Upon working, the guy will definately be more matured when he puts
his skills to the job. To a certain extent, i feel the gers will
learn some maturity from the working counterparts who have already
been thru NS.
And now, on the issue of... do you really love him, or are you all
juz together juz becos you are comfortable with each other?? Wat do
you want in this relation and where do u see it going??
A guy in NS will tink differently as compared to when he is
working. it's quite unfair to say he's immatured. it's an unfair
comparision.
Yup, i went thru this before and broke up. She is now with another
guy and she told me she regreted. Well life goes on and i can't
reverse wat has been done.
Gd luck, think carefully.
