loti SG my gf is moody and frustrated abt work.thot of doing something to cheer her up.then i happen to pass by kalm and saw a cute cute "flower".buy it and pass it to her close fren.the idea is to surprise her.i did not leave my name on the flower.according to her fren,she was quite surprise when she receive the flower,asking her who could have sent it.I ask her fren to reveal the secret later in the day.juz noe,she just call me to say thank you,then hang up the phone.i dun know why but it just seems to me that my effort is wasted.Even her fren also feel sorry for me.Her colleague also say i'm quite "good" to think of things to cheer her up.but wat did i got??? sometime i would console myself by saying maybe she's really stress out by her work,i have to be understanding.but deep inside i still feel very sad. maybe this is not wat she wants.... sometime i ask myself whether is it worth it....
poolgal SG at least she got call you to thank you rgt.dun think too much la maybe she too tired after a day of work..anyway good luck to two of you.
Devil1976 SG It's the THOUGHTS which counts... If you're asking for MORE then you would have to BUY it...?
Estee SG What reaction had you wanted? A thank you is not enough? You want her to cry in the phone for you? You want her to give you a kiss thru the phone? What had you wanted?
Odzi SG i think u should be thankful she called u and said thank you....maybe like what u said ... she was really stressed out at work and did not want to talk much ....sometimes we humans think too much... and like what people say,....humans are not all perfect.. cheer up ..!
Givache SG this case happen to me too..really ji tao no mood/ demoralise hoh..when doing someting to "hong" her then she jus stay cold...gei sianz...but if u nv do anyting will be worst...=) Givache
loti SG I'm not expecting such BIG reaction. When i decide to get her that cute flower,whether u believe or not,i not expecting anything.I just hope that the flower can really cheer her up.I'm just demoralise by the way she say "Thank you".It just seems like your effort has gone unappreciated.Then i would rather not hear the words.
Ah^ken SG Hey can't you haf more sympathy! this guy is realli sad that his gf dun really appreciate n u can still be so sarcastic! i tink u r a real ass mann! She should be thankful that she has such a nice bf!
hopy SG hai...y is life like tat? gals upset w/ their bf.....bf upset w/ their gf.....life is never fair huh?
Devil1976 SG ..... I need your gf needs more of your company, listening to her and talking to her than the flower...? You can try that out?
Devil1976 SG It's not that Life is totally unfair.... Though Life is never really that 'fair'.... But most of the time it lies more with the problem that people don't see the things they WANNA SEE.....?
greengoblin SG Well maybe just hear her out I believe she is pleased with your gift some gals are just reserved and dun show feelings so easily
JeweL81 SG erm.... i am thinking the exact oppostie. Her fren said she was surprised initially as she dunno who gave her the flowers... she muz be thinking that sumone is after her.... that probably light up her day. but when she knows that the flowers were actually from her bf.... erm... not that she isn;t please that the guys bought her flowers... juz disappointed that the "secret admirer" thingy isn't real.
greengoblin SG Give his gf benifit of doubt. I believe she is not the type who is so flicke I genuinely believe she is please with ur gift. Try harder pal !!!
CloneMe72 SG Trust is a costy commodity nowadays. Give and expect nothing in return, in that you will find happiness.
Devil1976 SG ..... Please note that this is just your presumption? There're many possibilities than this way of seeing things...? You sure don't wanna jump to conclusion?
Retrac SG Hmmm... well maybe she's having a bad day lor. and when things are going like tat, most likely she also sian 1/2 lor. even when pple try to cheer u up, the respond will be juz a 'thanks for the effort' but it didn't really help. on the other hand, some gers are like tat, always appear cold lor. i used to be wif a ger who will neber express her feelings lor. but deep inside she does know how she feels. dun tink too much over the actions. i guess u were expecting her to respond in a particular way, and when she didn't you felt something is wrong. go talk to her and try to 'hong' her. cos the best gift is being there with each other physically. it's the human touch, the human interaction.
