helpmeplease SG I know this guy A since i started my poly life. we were in the same course and he was in a different class but our classes are quite close to each other and everyone in his class rumoured that he like me.... but he seems quite uncomfortable when we happen to met each other outside school. But i got the feeling that he likes me but i cannot confirm because i didn't want spoilt our friendship But at that time, i had a crush on the other guy B in my class,i know that he doesn't like me, but stupid of me to hang out with him. Guy B has a gf now. Now then i realised that... I don't know what to do... Just don't tell me to confront that guy whether or not he likes me.[/code]
baruku SG pardon me but how is guy A troubling you? afterall, it is guy B whom you like, but too bad, he is already reserved. it is better to have someone who likes you than vice versa, especially when the latter is unattainable. drop a couple of hints or get your girlfriends to link you up if guy A stands a chance.
milkshake SG hmm...., one sided love on both A n u =P try not bother B, love doesnt mean possesion, as long as he living happie, can liao as for A, he paiseh mah, maybe no experience.., wat poly u in? tell that guyz cum find me, i gib him more tips, sure can win ur heart
userid SG dont waste a’s time if u dont even know if u like him. dont keep his attention to boost yr own ego.
ETboy SG what has A got to do when you like B ?? A really like you not??? if not afterall it's just rumours.or How bt Gers making the moves??
marlboro SG Whether A likes you or not isn't really a problem, the problem is whether you like him or not. If yes, don't be afraid to make the first move, just say hi and make small talk wif him whenever you get the chance and if he's interested, he'll ask u out soon enough
WinBoi84 SG Relax lah girl, u r juz a freshie rite? Now Poly started not even 1 month yet, and u wanna decide on which guy to choose... My advice to u is just to befriend both of them now, then u will know which guy is better later on~!!! Good luck to u...
helpmeplease SG no lah... i not a freshie... in fact i'm in third year already... I kinda of like him but i'm too shy to make the first move
User Name SG Make more chances to talk to him lor. Talk talk only, no need to be shy. Not say u want to marry him or wat. If the guy is really interested in you, he will make the move.
greengoblin SG Ask him to makan lunch together at canteen give you chance to talk to him and both wun feel too paiseh
greengoblin SG Walau....auntie make up ur mind leh....very simple...A or B ? B got gf liaoz....f**k care him....A if u like him go for it...if u dun like him or just want to fill the void in ur heart...or just because some of ur friends egg u on to find a bf 'cause it is trendly or whatever the reason...go keep a dog or a cat better... relationship not pray pray want to make or break one there is the commitment factor...liaoz boh ?
baruku SG i think u should do yourself a favour by deciding who you prefer to be with. you cant possibly have both sides of the world. if you are in such dilemma, you are not ready for relationship yet. one thing i hope you can bear in mind is to not use guy A as your backup plan. if i am not wrong, most women are pretty faithful with their feelings. as far as chemistry is concerned, guy A is history, since your latest crush is on guy B. maintain your friends status with guy A. go for you guy B.
userid SG do u know why she also choose the one with the bf anot? cos a bf == a desired thus desirable guy whom she will naturally desire. since tats the case, winning him over will be like winning a prize: "i am better than her! look! i won this desirable man over!" this is why attached guys are usually more sought after, and this is also the reason why gals say all good guys are either attached or dead.
greengoblin SG Then we guys could say the same thing too you know All good gals are either attached or dead duh....
