crystal_81 SG Firstly danny, u don't deserve any help cos your gf is the victim...u shouldn't have went out with wat so called "quite pretty and sweet gal"...that is wat i can said guys r flirts (but u should have your limits too)... Further more...having sex with that irc gal..is far too much(show that u dun love ur gf so deeply)..wat i can say to your gf is...give up on u...she is more suitable for others guys who can treat her much much better then u ...(hope she will know this matter and leave u for that)!!! Maybe ur current gf dun have "quite pretty and sweet" look...but do u think that the IRC gal is better than your current gf in term of how she treat u??Lucky, u still have a brain to think and has chosen the correct gal(Ur current gf)!! Anyway what is happened had already happened...no point thinking or looking back liao..if now u still care and really love your current gf..pls treasure her and treat her nicer and be good to her(dun do anything like that behind her back again)!!