I guess it's the way some view a relationship... you can say,
tat one should not close one's heart even after a break up cos one
won't know wat might happen next... and also if u neber tried, you
won't know who is rite for you...
on the other hand, for some pple like me, i still believe tat a
relationship is of great value and it's a lot of effort to keep it
going... it's not juz abt trying to see if things can work, if not
-> forget it... kinda thing... or if i reach my objective then
i'll juz dump the other...
enter a relation only when you are sure you love the other wif all
yr heart... love doens't happen over nite... and it takes time to
build... if after a few mths and you still can't love the other
101% or still tink abt another, then i believe it won't work
lor...
treat relations gently as they are fragile especially cos it
involves emotions... 
