Problems!!!

AsTr0GiRL SG

Life has been kinda problematic lately.. Got myself involved with a guy who treats me juz as badly as my ex does except that he is clever enough not to give me any promises and yet had the cheek to self proclaim that he's nice to me... Then along comes a guy who says that he likes me and thou I have got no feelings for him, i treat him nice as I know he's someone who i can depend on in future.. Then my ex keeps bothering me asking me for a patch.. haiz.. Why is life like that? Wat should I do?? Why the one I love can't love me back the same amount and the one who is already a past can't juz stay in the past and how can i find feelings for the one who can b a future of mine??

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When 2 hearts are meant for each other, no distance is too far, no time is too long and no other love can break them apart....

ApPlE_PiE SG

love cun be measured...when u sincerely love a person, u dun compare the love u have for him and how much he has for u!

somehow,i think u ought to learn to understand dis first before getting involve in a new relationship.If not,u'll never be happy...gd luck... Smile

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I'LL HoLd U dEaR
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fatuglymoomoo SG

Ahh... relationship problems
Maybe you girls shouldn't look so deep into relationships all the time. you deserve a break!!
go into those really hot sports and cook urself under the sunlight.
then after u get dark and ugly... see which guy still likes you. He is the one FOR U....hahha...

Ayuistic SG

what crap is that...lol...anyway if you really like the guy...just tell him man...at least you got an answer then to sit and wait for people to woo you. Smile

Prodigy SG

hey i like tanned girls!!!!

look so stylo

fatuglymoomoo SG

Haha actually I like tanned girls too… thats why i encourage ppl to go tan themselves…..

Devil1976 SG

Look at your signature... Think over it when you're free and at leisure.... You're looking for LOVE, not answers...? Smile

AsTr0GiRL SG

Prodigy: r u the same one that i noe from tt old old long closed down forum?

maybe i'm juz looking for love in all the wrong places... i missed the one who i liked... thou now i spend most of the time getting to noe the one wif a future more... hope tat tis time i gambled rite....

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When 2 hearts are meant for each other, no distance is too far, no time is too long and no other love can break them apart....

userid SG

one with future == highest moneymaking potential?

if so, another anna nicole smith. hope not; else pity the poor guy.

AsTr0GiRL SG

a future means someone who i can depend on next time... not someone who juz sits ard n do nothing n dun bother abt his own future lor... tis is wat i refering to ...

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When 2 hearts are meant for each other, no distance is too far, no time is too long and no other love can break them apart....

userid SG

talk abt feminism..
have u considered learning to feed yrself instead of looking for someone to depend on? give tat some thought. ask yrself if u can stand on yr own feet by 30 if u are not wedded and if yr parents are no longer able to support u.

AsTr0GiRL SG

depend on doesn't have to b in monetary terms rite?? y everything i say seem to be toking abt $$ to you? dun u ever need someone to depend on emotionally? someone who can be there to guide u along in life and to share your ups and downs??

but latest conclusion regarding tis matter... all guys are alike... haiz...

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When 2 hearts are meant for each other, no distance is too far, no time is too long and no other love can break them apart....

Seventh_Signs SG

hmmm guess it is always the case the one who u love dont love u as much as u feel u love him/her.. but well hope u will find someone who is more understand more senible knows that what can both have in future... pure love no bread u will not survive too ..
future doesn't means only money .. future i guess can say .. sort of atleast learn to take care of each others need...

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userid SG

maybe it doesnt seem like tat to u but these 2 statements seem to suggest tat:

1>"now i spend most of the time getting to noe the one wif a future more... hope tat tis time i gambled rite...."

- a man with a future...tat refers to someone with career potential. u didnt say a relationship with a future. definitely nothing abt emotional dependence.

2>"a future means someone who i can depend on next time... not someone who juz sits ard n do nothing n dun bother abt his own future lor... "

- fine, tat someone u can depend on means someone who can give u emotional support but when u said sitting ard doing nothing, it usually means someone who doesnt strike out, who doesnt work hard to get a job, secure a career etc;

i think wat u say is self conflicting, unless u want to be honest to just say ure looking for someone who u know can feed u which is the point i was getting at. u sound like u are trying to rationalise yr earlier statements. dont.

wat do u mean by yr general statement of "all guys are alike"? sounds like a groundless retort to me at least. pls substantiate (if not at least clarify yr meaning, i.e. "all guys have beards, arms, legs" etc)

the main thing i was trying to say was tat u are not being fair to tat "boy with future". sounds like u are pretending to like him.

[This message has been edited by userid (edited 02 June 2002).]