Relieving stress/loneliness

shenderz SG

What are the different ways people use to relieve stress (from work and studies)?

How about loneliness. Care to share?

bigdeal SG

i no gf, but i not lonely.. if got stress i tok to my budddies or just whine in the forums...

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sakaratulz SG

heavy metal music for me Very Happy

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to live is evil...=)

otacon SG

I ride bike, so if lonely, just ride bike to mount faber. Or walk among the crowds to feel the happiness.

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shenderz SG

Sometimes I feel even lonelier in a crowd.

JacK84 SG

Work:Maybe you can try being materialistic at
times,like giving treats to yourself or sth.

Studies:Go have fun?Depends what you are in.
Sometimes i go for karaoke when i'm stressed.

But the best way i can think of might be thru
conversials.Frens are your best if something
bothers you and you can simply share your
stress or troubles.Hope this helps. Smile

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bigdeal SG

also, in addition to wat i said, i also use my fist to hit again walls, glass and etc.. i break a glass before with my bare hands.. (maybe no bigdeal hor) kekek

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BuT dId YoU kNoW It StUng My EvErY nErVe?
ShAtTeReD mY PrIde,
LeFt mE ScArReD
i MiGhT nEvEr bE tHe sAmE aGaiN
fOr tHeSe wOrDs YoU sAiD
aRe fOrEvEr eNgrAvEd
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DraWn aCrOSs ReaSons
bUt YOU--- ReMEmBeR
I WoUld SuRviVe

raingal SG

I am alone most times but I don't feel lonely. Basically due to WARMTH and LOVE in my family which made me don't feel lonely.

When stress, I call HELPLINES, I talk to people, I post my problems in the forums etc. In addition, I need to be on medication when I am stressed. My counsellor has taught me breathing skill/meditation, I'm still practising it. Listening to music and watching TV also helps.

Took me 2-3 yrs to cope with my DEPRESSION. Now I am learning to cope with my STRESS.

Devil1976 SG

Grant to know that you're putting in adequate effort for yourself...? Smile STRESS can sometimes easily lead to other MAJOR related diseases like HEART DISEASE, STROKE or HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE.... Which can FURTHER lead to OTHER dieseases or via versa.... It's always good to stop things at a certain stage and keep them ABAY before the REAL PROBLEMS (+ more problems) start to form up...?

Prodigy SG

i nearly broke someones front tooth off when i was fustrated. Confused

otacon SG

Definitely a wrong way to relieve loneliness...

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otacon SG

Then find some hobbies to spend your time more worth. Go exercise. Surf the net to learn new things.
Try http://www.howstuffworks.com
Can learn a lot of stuffs in there.
Actually I was feeling quite lonely these few days too but posting in this forum really reduce it. Glad that I made some new friends too. Smile

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Malbordus SG

lonely? call up old friends or acquintances. they would be pleasantly surprised to hear from you after so long. it just takes someone to make the first step.

[This message has been edited by Malbordus (edited 23 April 2002).]

Solitude- SG

Overcoming loneliness usually requires you to take iniciative and make the first move.

But if you really have no one to go out with, no one to talk to, I usually go and find some game to play. Something that I can do on my own.

When there is a chance to make a new friend, don't blow it.

aCid_rAIn SG

cannot cannot!!!
u'll get addicted onez~!!! Very Happy

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^FeRRoCiOuS^ SG

i broke some1's nose when i was damn pekchek..

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bigdeal SG

i said it b4... when i angry or sad .. i break my own hands... hit aginst someting hard...

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ThEsE wOrDs YoU SaId lAsT NigHt
SeEmEd hArMlEsS LikE a ChILd'S SmILe
BuT dId YoU kNoW It StUng My EvErY nErVe?
ShAtTeReD mY PrIde,
LeFt mE ScArReD
i MiGhT nEvEr bE tHe sAmE aGaiN
fOr tHeSe wOrDs YoU sAiD
aRe fOrEvEr eNgrAvEd
LiKe A MemORy CuRtAin
DraWn aCrOSs ReaSons
bUt YOU--- ReMEmBeR
I WoUld SuRviVe

Devil1976 SG

Very Happy

Devil1976 SG

Surprised .....

Malbordus SG

Hey hey guys what is this com’on violence is not the solution to your problems. it’s bad enough that some of you inflict injury to yourself. pls dun go around punching other ppl’s lights out. Jun Zi Dong Kou Bu Dong Shou remember? gentlemen dun fight unless in self defence. and to those who do something to cope with their stress (be it shopping or self injury), i guess if it makes you feel better, then fine… but pls dun overdo it, bcos you won’t solve your problems this way. you only add to them. so pls huh… muz take care of yourselves…