Hi,
I need some advice here. The situation is like this... I got to
know a guy from a 3 days trip organised by my friends.
Initially, I just treated him as a friend... but as times goes on,
I found that I grew to like him. During the trip, he asked me
whether I like watching movies, I said 'yes'. Then he suggested
that next time we could watch movies or go drinking coffee
together.
The next day, he called me but my line was engaged as I was toking
on the phone. Thus, he called my friend to find out why he couldn't
get through and he got my icq no. from my friend. The following
day, (which is last Wednesday), he called me and we chatted for a
while. He asked me to join him and his friends for a meal during
the weekend but I refused cos I had to study for a major test this
week.
Since that phone call last Wednesday, I have not heard from him
since, and I hardly see him online in icq. I was thinking that
probably he is just treating me as a friend only.... I felt foolish
but still, I would really like to know about how he felt towards
me.. But at the same time, I knew that probably, I will never get
the answer.
In your opinion, how can I get him out of my mind? (Cos, I do not
wish to be hanging on to a 'friendship' that's not going to work
and moreover, I wish to concentrate on my studies at this critical
point in time).
[This message has been edited by autumn (edited 13 April
2002).]
