wHy iS hE sO hArD tO fOrgEt?

lOnEsOmE SG

i’Ve liKed tHis gUy FOr 2 yRs aNd hE liKed mE b4.bUt nOw hE liKes aNotHer giRl aNd i’Ve bEeN tRyiNg vEry hArd tO fOrgEt aBoUt hiM bUt i cAn’T..hE sEeMs liKe sUmtHing tT iS stoRed iN mY miNd aNd uNaBlE tO delEte iT aWaY..cAn sUmoNe hELp mE tO fOrgEt hiM?!?

Devil1976 SG

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otacon SG

Err... First of all, dun u feel very troublesome typing your WoRdS tHiS wAy? I think most of us have difficulties reading it.
Anyway, U can meet me and then like me and finally u will forget him. How's this? I charge $5 per hour. Smile
Just joking, I mean just go out there and meet new friends. Discover your new hobbies... And in no time, u will only concentrate on your bigger social circle.

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--Appreciate what you have now and not what you don't--

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JacK84 SG

Coming to relationships,it's easy.If you aren't suited,change.Break,find a bomd somewhere again.Easy as that.There are so many guys for you to choose from,get a wiser
choice friend. Smile

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raingal SG

You have to help yourself before others can help you. And you probably need TIME (a year or two) to get on with your life without him always in your mind. Keep the good memories, though.

And don't worry so much about unable to forget him. This is NORMAL, that shows that you DO love him very much.

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Devil1976 SG

Very Happy

RuthBaby SG

Sad

bigdeal SG

then u tell me la.. y is it so hard to forget her!!! sigh Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad

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ThEsE wOrDs YoU SaId lAsT NigHt
SeEmEd hArMlEsS LikE a ChILd'S SmILe
BuT dId YoU kNoW It StUng My EvErY nErVe?
ShAtTeReD mY PrIde,
LeFt mE ScArReD
i MiGhT nEvEr bE tHe sAmE aGaiN
fOr tHeSe wOrDs YoU sAiD
aRe fOrEvEr eNgrAvEd
LiKe A MemORy CuRtAin
DraWn aCrOSs ReaSons
bUt YOU--- ReMEmBeR
I WoUld SuRviVe

Wes Brown SG

sakaratulz SG

can always think abt me.... Very Happy

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to live is evil...=)

bigdeal SG

wah tha charbor chio wor..

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ThEsE wOrDs YoU SaId lAsT NigHt
SeEmEd hArMlEsS LikE a ChILd'S SmILe
BuT dId YoU kNoW It StUng My EvErY nErVe?
ShAtTeReD mY PrIde,
LeFt mE ScArReD
i MiGhT nEvEr bE tHe sAmE aGaiN
fOr tHeSe wOrDs YoU sAiD
aRe fOrEvEr eNgrAvEd
LiKe A MemORy CuRtAin
DraWn aCrOSs ReaSons
bUt YOU--- ReMEmBeR
I WoUld SuRviVe

raingal SG

Why? She owe you money har? (just joking)

Then you tell us lah, why can't you forget her?

It's only when your HEART decide to tell you to forget her then you can forget her. Move on! It's all over!

Like some people will say: There are so many trees in the forest, why cling on to this tree which doesn't appreciate your LOVE?

Devil1976 SG

Well... I'm always doing the easy part... It's always easier to say such... But to DO? Smile It would NEED ALOT of PRACTICE and MENTAL CONTROL....?

Prodigy SG

my advice for forgetting ppl is..

if u r working...keep working and working and make yourself sooo busy until u dun have time to tink of other things...

when u reach home...and the lonely night is slowly creeping up on the world...u will be soooo tired tat the only thing u tink of , is sleep

the road is never easy. But it is up TO YOU to take it easy

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Solitude- SG

How about if its an ex gf whom you loved very much, despite it being almost 2 years already, i still can't forget her?

Turning into cs to fill up the void, not making much friends especially in school,where everyone speaks chinese and im the outcast, when you meet new girls in your life, but after a while, nothing happens as a result of hurt, afraid to get hurt again, afraid of being a lousy boyfriend(from ex gf), where intimate details of the relationship so vividly fresh in the mind..
that sparkling eyes, that lovely smile..the unforgetable smell..

tell me..how to forget and move on??

raingal SG

It is NEVER EASY to give advice. It is also NEVER EASY to understand the pain the person is going through UNLESS you've been there before.

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raingal SG

Hi Solitude

We can't TOTALLY forget a person whom we've once loved deeply. But it has been about 2 yrs and you still have STRONG feelings for your ex-gf? Then you MUST ask yourself do you want to CONTINUE to be like this? You have to do something to your LIFE yourself in order to MOVE ON. Nobody can help you, you've to HELP yourself.

I don't think you are ready in new relationship as yet. Forget about meeting new girls for the time being.

I see it that you've lost confidence in yourself already. Go out and make new friends first. If not in school then outside, but don't mix with the baddies. Friends who accept you as who you are, friends who can give you confidence. Do you have any CS buddies? Is CS=counterstrike?

Devil1976 SG

She looks VERY FAMILAR...? Like I'd seen her before...? Just can't remember where...?

Devil1976 SG

...... ...... PAIN? How much can you offer...?

Devil1976 SG

Hmm... Talk about CONFIDENCE? For a moment there I couldn't believe you're the one giving the advices here...? Wink