aiyah if you want to stop, then just stop lor. juz refrain from
talking back to your parents. they say what, just let them say. as
long as you keep your mouth shut, and dun keep fueling them with
more things to say you, eventually they will run out of topics to
say and just have to shut up.
but a pity that you are on such bad terms with your parents lah. i
went through a period where home was a hotel and i nvr bother to
talk to my parents about anything. but these few years i realised
that they can be very good friends too. i tell you, nobody
dispenses better advice than your mom 
in fact, here's what you can do: go right up to your parents one
day and say to them "i'm sick of quarreling with you guys. can we
have a normal family relationship from now on?" i mean if you're
sick of it, obviously they're sick of it as well. would be good to
everybody's ears for you guys to stop, and it won't stop until
somebody gives in. give it a try!
