this quote like not right leh...
tot its suppose to tell ppl that if u r doing things out of
righteou, u wunt be having non-righteous thought of that
act...
jus like the little monk... his tot is only on contact with the
lady, instead of helping the lady... so even if he is not carrying
the lady closely, his tot of contact with the lady is a sin to his
religious liaw...
unlike the mature monk, his tot is simply helping, contact is no
longer existing in his mind, he is no longer bothered by
lust...
so think the story is telling us something like that... isn't
it??