How to tell a gal you like her and avoid rejection?

lchungwe SG

Please advise.

snowball72 SG

avoid rejection?? a girl reject u cos she dun feel the same way as wat u felt for her mah...not cos of the way u tell her.

Pls dun ask things like "Can i have the chance to chase u??" It's so god damn stupid.
Or "Do you want to be my gf?" How u expect her to reply?? "Yeah!! I want!!" ??

Tell her in such a way dat it's easier for her to say "yes" without lookin desperate. Wat u gonna say would depend on wat kinda girl u r sayin to.

Good Luck!! Smile

giraffe SG

Ichungwe…why dun u spell out ur whole problem?? alamak…u ask bit-by-bit… every question got each own appropriate answer which u can’t lum them all together ley…

snowball72 SG

haha…giraffe..guess wat…i realise the way we tink machiam very alike …...i see ur post liao…no need post liao…cos wanna say same things…haha.. :p

Devil1976 SG

WAHAHAhaha... Just TELL HER that YOU LOVE that BUT you don't want her to be your gf lor??!! <- No opportunity for her to REJECT you what...? Hehheh... Very Happy

DON'T BE SILLY ok..?? FAILURE and REJECTION are just part and puzzles of life... Where got 100% SUCCESS rate one...? You think you LOVE SAINT huh..?? If got you MUST TEACH me you know..??? :p

lchungwe SG

But how do I give signals? I always scared away the gal.

Devil1976 SG

In what way..? Ask for HONEST OPINION from the female friends around you lah...? MAYBE it would help...?

giraffe SG

LOL....High 5 snowball...I discover that too, each time I saw ur reply I feel like I m reading my own...kekeke... =)

Hmm...y dun u share wif us how u approach the gal...& wat is the gal's behaviour to make u confident to ask her...u say u scare away gals...dat is a funny thing to know.

snowball72 SG

hmm...were u too rash?? As in like jus know the girl den u told her u like her?? Lidat not onli scare her away, it'll aso make her tink u easily like ppl, or is not serious wif her wor!!

Tink b4 u do anythin...once she gets scared away...bery hard for u to make her accept u again...even as a normal fren.

sakaratulz SG

its better 4 u to ask than never ask at all...so wat if she reject u, she will b missing all the fun rite?(er...right?)just keep on asking all the gerl that u fancy
( not all at 1 time lah) and who noes one of them might say yes
(dating is a numbers game)the number of no's will eventually lead to a yes so dont worry bro...

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mikegk_76 SG

I agree u cn't tell the girl when u met her for the first/second time, this will definitely scared her off. Try asking her out more and call her every now and then to get to knw her more first, there's a chinese saying, "zhi zi zhi bi, bai zhan bai shen", this is really true sometimes...

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

Toronto SG

now im the one who need help!!!!
wat happen if u become friends for a couple of weeks and know her better, and you wanted to ask her for a date just the two of you, is that to rash as well? so how do you determine its the right time, when you could really trully express your feeling.

Devil1976 SG

DIFFERENT methods work for DIFFERENT girls... If you're FATED to be together then it'll just all work out finally... If you're NOT, no point FORCING yourselves together and SUFFERING in the end?

PERSONALLY, I don't (totally) believe in being too rush? I think one of the MOST IMPORTANT things would be your TRUTHFULNESS and SINCERITY.... But of course, it DOESN'T always work... And when that DOESN'T work...? I can ADVISE you to SAVE your breath....

lchungwe SG

No wonder we had so many guys still without gf and gals still without bf.

Zeraph SG

right time?
when got right time wan
if u want to go on a date with her, just do it.
i tink got wrong time lah, thats when she already got bf
hehehe

Ranma SG

ask her come out on a one to one date
and carry on from there

if she remains bored and stoned
she is not interested

if she "sparkle"
she is interested

however u got to look at the time,location and body language too ...

lchungwe SG

But gals know u know how to spend so they made u pay for everything throughout the period u were with her.

Titanus SG

What about if you were to ask a long time friend...

I mean, if she rejects, the friendship will enter a shaky stage..

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eagle SG

How did u ask?

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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration"

H J SG

Ai ya U want to go out one on one with a gal very easy one. First you must chat very well with the gals, e.g know what is her common interest.
From there, you pretend that you have the same interest as her or maybe pass her notes. Any type of excuse just to get near her. When the first time you succeed, it will be easier.
Furthermore, if once a gal is willing to go out with you one on one, there is a possibility she likes you but you must know how to convey the msg, that's all