Guys... how do you tell or show a girl tat u r interested in

XinYi SG

Guys… how do you tell or show a girl tat u r interested in them and wan her to be ur g/fren?

Devil1976 SG

ASK... Eye contact... BODY CONTACT..?? Very Happy

eagle SG

Get nearer? Tok more? Give more attention?

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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
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doghouse SG

haizzzzzzzzzz
me to shy to aproach
me haizzzzzzzzzzzz
i cant really speak well in front of gers
really
but i can talk well through the phone
i also dont know well
haizzzzzzzzzzzzzz
can any one help me too????
pls

eagle SG

Juz go and tok, and build confidence. I was really shy b4 I go JC. Cuz came from single sex sch, neva interact much wif gals at all, so dun even dare to tok.

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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration"

kof-guy SG

"hello, tonite/later doing wat/going where?"

"wanna go for a ride?"

"i like you."

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TA150 SG

Guys show their love by doing things for the girl they love. Whereas..women show their love in a very much percuiliar method-->Talk.

So for a girl to know whether the guy really fancies you or not.. He will win you over with his actions... NOT HIS WORDS! Words can be easily said by everyone. Though they have a different weightage depending who says it....TRUST ME AS I AM A GUY! A guy that is really in love with a girl will do things for the SHE.. But the do take note, coz if wat the guys does is something which can be done easily by money... not by using real effort...BEWARE!

As for a guy....open up...talk more.Need feel shy over a girl. Coz both are developing adults already..they will not feel shy talking or listening to a human of the opposite gender... Okie dokie?

If you really wanna understand more..go read up the book <<Man are from Mars; Women are from Venus>> a very good book from John Gray

Devil1976 SG

TOPICAL FLIRT!! Very Happy

Devil1976 SG

BUT I'm a GUY too..?? Very Happy

TA150 SG

BUT I'm a GUY too..?? Very Happy [/B][/QUOTE]

Guess my posting tells u ppl that i am a guy.

XinYi SG

How to differiate whether the action he is showing is interested in you or just a platonic fren will do one?

Cos you can't really read ones mind. We may just interpret it opposite to what he does.

eagle SG

This is the hardest part, interpreting actions. Same thing for guys too. How to differentiate whether action a gal is showing is interested in us or juz a fren.

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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration"

XinYi SG

So your conclusion is, that person actions will not tell you whether the person like you or not lah, is it?

So you got better suggestions?

kof-guy SG

actions are not enough.
we humans have not reached the stage in evolution whereby we are pyshic.

you have a mouth. use it. Very Happy

if humji...then... write letter loh.
but ah say nicely, letter = romantic and sweet. say truthfully, letter = not sincere enough, fake.
coz letters this kinda thing is unless you every week send her at least 1, then defeat the purpose liao mah. 1st time she recieve she'll think you're the romantic type. but if she never recieve anymore letters, the impression will change to ah hum type.

ok lah actually this is a guy's point of view hahaha Very Happy

[This message has been edited by kof-guy (edited 07 October 2001).]

eagle SG

Sorry, no better suggestion. Rolling Eyes

But letters leh, oso very difficult to write. Write too many may have a negative effect oso.

Wat I think is mutual understanding. If there isn't any, can't have lasting relationship too. :p

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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration"

LexZEUS SG

If you oso love him, better give him more attention... but don't talk about love, just "good night" or "good morning" with simple joke SMS will do ... send him 1 SMS per 2 days, then after a week, send everyday.
If he oso love you, then he will have more confidence to tell you "love" ...

but if you don't have any feeling abt him (just curious whether he loves you onot) ... then better don't do anything ... if he tell then let him tell, if not then oso do nothing... cos if you curious(only), and then do something to lure his feeling... 70% confirm .. this can make your friendship gone ...

TZR SG

if u go out with him he very shy and paiseh easily, that means he like u lor. haha but normally guys very paiseh one, dare not make the 1st move hahaha... if u ask him acoompany u this and that he very willingly means positive liao lor. If he say "ahh no time lah, go yourself" that kind thats mean negative. hehehe

eagle SG

I agree a bit.

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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration"

autumn SG

Hi Xinyi, why u ask this question leh? Eee, isit u are interested in some guys?... Although I am not a guy, but I feel that usually a guy will show their interest in a girl by asking her out often, or calling her often.

As for wanting the gal to be his gf, usually most guys will hint a bit. Some guys are more daring and direct... and they will just tell the gal directly.

Hope wat I had answered has cleared your doubts Smile

[This message has been edited by autumn (edited 10 October 2001).]

eagle SG

I'm not the daring sort. Dunno how to hint oso.
I wonder, do gals prefer a direct approach or a more subtle approach, making the gal guess wat is happening. Or obvious to the gal and subtle to others at the same time.
Shocked

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Thomas Edison definition of genius :
"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration"