should i just give up! advice please

yuppiez SG

months ago i am just like some other girl…happy ..boyfriend! but recently i just broke up with my boyfriend over some.. or many reasons…i cant get advice from my best frd and she all along doesnt like him..sometimes he treat me like a princess and sometimes receiving cold shoulder for one whole week… does he really love me …he told his friends tat we are no together when we are … reason because i hurt him… he expect me not to talk to other man but he did…i am really very loss… my best bud say i can get better one…but sometimes u just cant give up tings so easily…

iz_diz_rite SG

you should persevere on with the guy only if you think he is worth it
think about it.

he is fickle in his treating you. nice one moment and cold one moment. for a whole week even.
he told his friends that you 2 are no longer together. this shows how little he actually cherishes the relationship.
he said you hurt him because you talked to another guy? that's either an excuse or he is really insecure and overly jealous.

from where i sit your best friend is right. this bf is really not worth it. dun let the happy times you spent together hold you back. cos if you carry on this relationship you may just be burning urself...

blackhair SG

i think u should let him eat from the bushhyplate

Devil1976 SG

I've got this FEELING that both of you are still YOUNG.. But NOPE... Not gonna tell you the young people shouldn't fall in love and should study hard thingy shit.... Just wanna remind you that if both of you are YOUNG, you can have a LONG WAY to go with each other OR perhaps with another man of your choice in the future... He might be too young to handle the relationship now too... Whatever it is, let him know and understand your stand.... Make him UNDERSTAND that mutual respect and understanding is IMPORTANT in a relationship... And he still think (or tell people that) both of you are no longer couple, I think you should let the relationship go.....
Another thing to ADD... If both of you are NOT a young couple (especially HIM).... I ADVICE you to give him a SERIOUS THOUGHT... For MOST PROBABLY he don't even know how to THINK...?

yuppiez SG

sometimes things are not as simple as u say or want to do..
after so long there is feeling..
i really loss.. do u ppl think i realy should give up... any other thing is he is really **** anyway nv bring cash very piss off when he need to go and draw money at the well...sometimes or most of the time i just pay..

mikegk_76 SG

Hmmm, seems to me u really in too deep, cannot pull yourself out huh? But then, if he keep taking u for granted, u b really pitiful, do u know that? U must pluck up your courage and confront him face to face about the problem u r facing, don't b used by him? Sorry if I had offended your luv in any way, but I really think it's not worth it, think about it...

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

blackhair SG

eat from her bushy plate before u jump off the westin

yuppiez SG

oh ok…take you mike…think u did gimme comments the other times…thanks to everyone who had gimme advie…i am fine now…single and happy..:=)

Kyo23 SG

Good for you Smile

Klactovak SG

You're not ZhuZhu are you? Coz, one of my friend under going the same thing. Hey, wait most of my friends are having the same thing. Always break.... oh well. take things easy, every relationship is an experience. You'll get better everytime but learn from mistakes.

Devil1976 SG

ATTACHMENTS are just part of the things in life..... Of course it's NOT as simple as easy as we SPEAK... I used to be a very fickle-minded guy and those 'funny' attachment feelings too before I become a DEVIL.... I don't seems to be able to get rid of anything in my life or clear up my cupboards as all those things I'd just got 'feelings' for.... Sounds FUNNY? Ya... Now I think humans ARE TOO....
Anyway, my final words for now would STILL be.... I think you people are still 'young'.... Whatever it is, GLAD that you're single and HAPPY with it... Wink