That's strange... usually i'll just talk to them and if i find
that it's someone i'll like to see or talk to again. I open up my
mouth and ask for her hp no. If she says "no", then it's ok.
I did that only a few times in my life and each time, even if we
don't hit it off as couple. We become very good friends. Best thing
in the world.
FireIce, if you want to say no. Say "NO, lor", if the guy cannot
accept this kind of rejection better go and become a monk or wear a
skirt or something. Hey! I take back that sentence, I think some
women out there are stronger emotionally and mentally then quite a
lot of men(?!?) nowadays. Am I wrong?