Hmmmm... you may call me old-fashioned but virginity should be
treated with care and respect. Although, it's difficult to find a
virgin nowadays but to continue having sex any-o-how without
respect for one's body is getting more and more dangerous.
I'm talking about sexually-transmitted diseases, AIDS, Hepatitis B,
etc etc... when one goes out to experiment with the opposite/same
sex without knowing what they are in for is really dangerous. There
are lots of diseases out there which are curable but painful and
others when contracted are incurable. To throw away's one life and
future for a moment of folly is kinda hard for me to digest.
I tend to agree with everyone of you after night_dust about
accepting the other party as they are but to be safe... find out
about his/her history. Not so easy, how can one ask about their
history.... How awkward!
Oh yah, BackStreet Boys can sing that in an ideal world, I would
too. But what about the downside... I don't care who you are, what
you do, but you gave me STDs... now i'm itching like mad, hurts
when i pee... blah blah... get the idea?
Other than that, forgive and forget. Practice safe sex, if you
cannot control. Haizz... stop here now.