Dear eagle,
I did not take my 5 signs from any website if that question on
"what website?" was directed to me.
Personally, these are the 5 signs that over time, I've found many
girls exhibit. On top of this, you must understand that girls are
emotional by design. Thus, the way they communicate or hint to a
guy that she likes him is through emotions. This translates
directly into a lot of care and concern - maybe lots of phone calls
as well.
While this is true for many girls, I find that there are some who
break all these rules.
Joanne advises to just go and ask the girl... well...
On a more serious note, I think any guy who likes a girl and
wonders if the girl likes him needs to consider this liking feeling
a lot. Many relationships break up simply because there is a huge
rush in wanting to know if the other party likes you even you
aren't even completely sure why or IF you truly like the
girl.
I'd probably share something here that is a little out of point but
it might help you to counsel others in r/s problems.
The word is "RELATIONSHIP". Let me break it down to help you. It's
seperated into 2 parts:
1) RELATION
In essence, there must be a relation between two people. For
example, many people who get attached don't REALLY know their gf's
or bf's much. They continue the relationship in hope that this will
be the girl who completes their life or makes their life a happier
journey. However, before you can relate to someone else, you MUST
be able to relate to YOURSELF. That's another problem with many.
They don't love THEMSEVLES enough.
2) SHIP
Every relationship is like a voyage into the unknown. Have you seen
ships going into storms? Everyone on board becomes panicky.
However, notice the captain. He knows his ship. He loves his ship.
He trusts his ship and he is not afraid to show his fear and
concern and yet he still clings on to the ship in spite of the
storm.
This scenario is true for relationships between a boy and a girl
who truly love each other. In every love relationship, the LOVE
creates an environment for past hurts, fears and pains to surface.
Thus, many who start off in love, often find that love HURTS.
That's so true! Why? Because LOVE HEALS. Many try to run away from
the issue when their relationships encounter problems. However,
real love will heal the hurts and things that surface, because LOVE
is designed to heal your past hurts. So you can decide whether you
want to be like the passangers on the ship who cry out, or be like
the captain who faces the storms in the journey and CLINGS on to
the ship.
In closing, every ship has a captain... in love, it takes two to
drive a ship.
Bon voyage!
Daniel
