this is embarrassing to say because i have never actually made
public in forums what i feel...
i hope some of you can advise me quite reasonably and sensibly to
the following situation.
I met this guy through a girl friend of mine. I didn't feel
anything towards him at first sight because quite honestly he is
not goodlooking but pleasant enough.
After he met me and we went out together(with friends), he told my
friend that he thought i was cute. My friend is really good friends
with him so she told me what he thought about me.
The thing is that the term "cute" is used very loosely so....i
don't know..
anyway, what happened next was he asked my friend for my ICQ #. We
chat occasionally but i realized that recently he doesn't talk to
me if i am online. Is he being shy? or has lost interest? am i just
being too paranoid about what he thinks of me?
Of course when i start a conversation with him he always replies
back but why doesn't he try to start a convo with me first?
Before this, whenever we went out(always with friends)he makes tons
of eye contact with me. And he talks to me quite a bit but only
when there are no one around. When we're with friends he seems to
be quiet around me...
Once i mentioned i like a type of snack, the next time he came he
brought the snack for me. Just being a nice guy or..?????
The worst part is that i've started to kind of like him because of
the little gestures he seemingly projects towards me.
PLease advise as to what i should do next. Should i make a
move...can u advise me on specific things that i should do to show
him i have a little interest in him and yet not seem
desperate.
I'm just so confuse. Maybe he just thought i was cute and that was
it....
what do u think?
