Think many of you may not know about this, but in life there are
different kinds of happiness... There sure is...
For instance, when you have a quarrel with your partner, you turn
to your dear friends, and you find happiness when you laugh at the
jokes and the silly conversations that involve them... In Chinese
it's kuai le.
However, when you are with your partner, it's no longer a feeling
of just happiness that you are happy. It's no more laughing, but
just sweet smilings, to yourself in your heart.. that's happiness
too... in Chinese it's called xing fu.
Then there's the warmth that a family have.. that's call wen luan
in Chinese... They all make a percentage of internal
happiness...
Then there's the external happiness where by you could have won a
lottery... A good example, but *touch wood* *touches ApPlE_PiE's
head* heheh~ when your dear partner is to pass away, and you
receive news that you won a lottery, you will be caught in
between... No doubt you can say that it's heartless for someone to
think of money when one is giving respects for the dead, but hey a
different part of the brain gets stimulated all together... hence
you will feeling both...
Then there's the other example. When last person in your family
died, *touch wood* again, aren't you comforted that your loved one
is there comforting you?? YOu will have a sense of happiness
because you know that there's still someone who cares for you...
and it's from a different source, which touches a different part of
you.
Okiez.. that's what I believe... To me, I feel happiness when I'm
being loved by my loved ones and friends... You may not know this,
but in most cases your family is the one that loves you most, thus
bring you much happiness... And it's usually not know to people, as
it's never being mentioned openly, like you never hug you parents,
when you know that they care for you, or prepare your
breakfast...
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( 'o' ) Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear
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(.)_(.) Beary Bear *Huggiez*...
~.~.~. For you, I care and love.
