y like that?

cableman SG

hi guys new to this forum..

got to knoe a ger one yr younger than me for abt 5 months.

i dun knoe whether she like me or not but i do like her and wants her to be my gf.

we can tok on the on phone for hrs (2-3).
so would a ger tok to u for hrs but feel nothing for u?

we used to go dinner every now and then . i will usually sent her home..to her lift. i really enjoyed that

i been to her house a few times all alone. she been to my house also
so how do i knoe is it just friendship bet us?

but yesterday while toking, she seems angry with me for not saying goods things to her since we become friends. and seems to reply my msg later nowsday..

am i too sensitive or gone with the wind already??

how can i go and approach her, even though i fail, we can still be friends ?? i think i simplily bo chi..

would like to hear from ladies.

thankss

FireIce SG

i tink she is still undecided whether to go go deeper than a friend-friend r'ship wif u..tts why all the actions are still pretty ambiguous..

the best thing i suggest is to relli have a good talk wif her..
ask her wat she thinks of u and whether she reciprocates ur feelings for her...
dun start too bluntly..
mebe can tok about how long u have been together..slowly recall the events..then approach the question "how do you feel about me?" (or something like tt lah..)
if she is sincere to be wif u (be ur gf) she will give a definite respond..if she is still half-want-half-dun want then it is up to u to suppress ur feelings and continue to be frens..or to continue to touch her heart until she "softens" and agrees to be ur gf..

is might be quite embarassing but u need to know an answer..

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joanne SG

u 2 haf a complicated story.. have u ever hold her hand? maybe try holding her hand one day n , staring into her eyes n then whisper to her "would u like to be my gf?" hmm.. think since she dun mind toking to u for hours she most probably say yes...
all e best Very Happy remember to tell us the result hor... hee

yolanda_tan SG

i dun realli want to gif advice on such stuff as i m still young n do not noe much stuff…but all i can sae is ALL THE BEST!

blackhair SG

sit on her face

yc SG

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u can always starts off with just being frds, being easy at ease with one another & sharing thoughts, happy or sad thgs etc. U dont need to rush for the steady stage yet as time goes, the mutual understanding within will grows as the feelings & understanding of one another will eventually deepens.

You cannot rush frdships as u may spoil one good frdship unknowingly. patience & understanding is very important.

Dnt know how u & ur gf meet & dnt know how u two communicates. maybe the way u present urself to her dnt make her feel secure or uncomfortable or just simply she dnt want to commit herself to any relationship yet? give time to urself & her too for a breather. Wink

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^TzM 53^ SG

not true lah the sentance....toking on fone for hrs does not mean anything leh...(don angry wor)
juz simply ask lor...some times it worx...some times...it falls apart....hmm...frds? ermmm maybe i give it qanother 1yr max b4 u 2 'lose each others contact no.' heehee Very Happy
haf faith

Devil1976 SG

Originally posted by cableman:
hi guys new to this forum..

got to knoe a ger one yr younger than me for abt 5 months.

i dun knoe whether she like me or not but i do like her and wants her to be my gf.

we can tok on the on phone for hrs (2-3).
so would a ger tok to u for hrs but feel nothing for u?
YES.... It's HIGHLY POSSIBLE....

we used to go dinner every now and then . i will usually sent her home..to her lift. i really enjoyed that

i been to her house a few times all alone. she been to my house also
so how do i knoe is it just friendship bet us?
You can ASK.... NOT me... HER...

but yesterday while toking, she seems angry with me for not saying goods things to her since we become friends. and seems to reply my msg later nowsday..

am i too sensitive or gone with the wind already??

how can i go and approach her, even though i fail, we can still be friends ?? i think i simplily bo chi..
Refer to FireIce's POST....

would like to hear from ladies.

thankss

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I hold no past and see not future...
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Klactovak SG

Duh!!!

Something I read this morning...

Therefore, each of us has to create his own method. If you imitate, you'll be wrong. You have to create for yourself.

Other than that, say "I want to hold your hand, can?" or better still... pretend to check her lifelines on her palm and don't let go. See if she reacts to your touch. Heehee...

Good Luck. :p

FireIce SG

hahahaha...
last time got one guy tried this one me..
i slap his hand and pulled my hand away quickly..
i think it was a big blow to him...
i was not relli prepared lah..and then i no want give him wrong idea loh..

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Bear SG

OHz.. it's for girls.. so ain't suppose to say anything about it.. Oopz.. I just said something.. ahahhaha~ But i just love being an extra.. ahahaha~ heheheh~

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TZR SG

*sigh* at least u still have this kinda lobang ah, must treasure. Me want a girl come my house, go her house, tok with her on phone, sent her home, oso don have ah.... *sigh*

blackhair SG

i ve a better idea…....have HER sit on YOUR face

TZR SG

diam lar, giving stupid conclusions...

cableman SG

thanks for the reply...

been busy.. sorie for the late reply
but i tink gone with the wind liao.

wanted to jio her for dinner on that day, then she said something which breaks my heart..." go dinner??..--> wat so great abt eating"...in a bei song attitude

sign..i nev expect this kind of ans from her. not that we knoe each other for a day or wat..and i also lan lan..

then i also tu lan..i refuse to reply all her msg or just some yes no..
then she call me up ask me did she offend me?? wat lah now??...

so wat now??

^TzM 53^ SG

tell her lah… wad she said lor… somehao she will noe u like her wan….give a hint lah can liao…the rest …leave it fate….

blackhair SG

oooooooohhh.......touche....(bite me)

eagle SG

What do u look for in a romance? What do u define romance as? Do u really love her, or issit juz a crush or juz like or sth else?

Look into urself and feel, if u really like her, why u afraid to take action?

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TZR SG

good, bite u? hair can bite one meh? muahaha u MORON! Fool again~

TZR SG

I'd think its nicer to let me sit on your face.