What attracts ladies?

Klactovak SG

Okie, in my quest for improving myself... duh...

What are things that the modern age woman look for in guys? Is it attractive looks or a good heart? Someone you can talk to and comfort you when you're down. Laughs with you when your happy and accepts you for who you are when you don't think much of yourself. So please help poor little me out by giving me your views. Xie xie Smile

Klactovak SG

eh? How come no one response ahhhh Sad Boohoohoo.... :~

yolanda_tan SG

looks? money? status? the 5cs?

AsTr0GiRL SG

hmmmm.... those factors mentioned does contribute to it... but wat matters most is whether both can click a not and r both thinking on the same wavelength... also hor... feelings/chemistry counts too...

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When 2 hearts are meant for each other, no distance is too far, no time is too long and no other love can break them apart....

kaiLi SG

haha.. nt dun wan ans.. but kinda 2 general..
hmm... nice heart i tink... money n looks r only plus pts.. personally, i dun go 4 $$..

hmm.. they muz hve some kinda charisma,
gentlemen ways... muz knoe how 2 take care of pple ard him, esp gf... Smile

but, most imptly, muz b able 2 click lor.. communicatn is impt 4 a relatnshp 2 lasts...

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~~*The moment I looked in your eyes I fell in love. Everytime I look I fall in love again. I've looked so many times, and have gathered so much love. I have so much to carry with me I don't know what to do.*~~

[This message has been edited by *kaiLi* (edited 14 July 2001).]

Larry SG

I had always believed in being yourself. No point trying to attract people with a false personality. Rolling Eyes

U can always improve your appearance by using material means, but this is all superficial. Just be positive towards all matters. It's a good start. Very Happy

Klactovak SG

Larry, I believe so too but I'm at the same time curious about what are the values gers look for in guys nowadays.

Maybe I should paraphrase the question... If you have a boyfriend, what are the criterias you wish he has?

As for false personality, it depends on which direction it is coming from? If a person changed from an egoistical person to one that is humble then its not being false or hypocrite. False personality will be someone who acts to be kind and generous when in actual fact he's just wanting to get into the girl's pants or whatever. I stay really far away from people like this. Wink

Thanks to the ladies that have responded. Very Happy The most important thing is communication, which means something GoOD!!

^TzM 53^ SG

woa...yoland....u very 'sian shi' leh....

Klactovak SG

Hahahhahahaha... TzM... how? Sad liao ahhh? :p :p :p I don't think Yolanda is like that lah...

She said "status? money? looks? 5Cs?"
She didn't say "STATUS! MoNEY! LooKS!! 5Cs!!!"

Phew.... Very Happy

Larry SG

Klactovak:

Try being innocent. Very Happy

blackhair SG

masturbate. period

yolanda_tan SG

yar lor, i oso didnt add xclaimation marks behind so relax!!!!

domyoji33 SG

As for me , i am attracted by guys who are tall Surprised )
A sense of humor, smart , ariculate, mature, caring.

But the most important thing is to love me.

kaiLi SG

Klactovak
Maybe I should paraphrase the question... If you have a boyfriend, what are the criterias you wish he has?

muz love me.. muz take gd care of me.. Smile

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~~*The moment I looked in your eyes I fell in love. Everytime I look I fall in love again. I've looked so many times, and have gathered so much love. I have so much to carry with me I don't know what to do.*~~

keyi SG

tons of money money money..
looks..
the place/house/location/district tt i would live at if we marry..

of cus.. i dun think thats true for me..

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insanity..
loves io..
eternity..

^TzM 53^ SG

haahaa...sad??for?? haahaa Very Happy

^TzM 53^ SG

u ar... always disturb me....wait i use my motorbike knock u down ar...haahaahaahaa :p

Klactovak SG

So sorry... juz can't help it lah. Cannot use bike to knock me because your bike will be spoilt lor. heehee....

So far so good, but the way I look at it... some girls are really out for guys with a lot of $$$. I try to think that gers will like guys who can communicate with them, love and pamper them. But, those seen so far are very materialistic and like to hang around with older men with $$$.

Not that I'm always broke but it will be nice to have a girl to like me for who I am instead of what's in my wallet. Wink

yolanda_tan SG

dun worri, sure haf, dun haf, u tell me, i b matchmaker find 1 4 u

Klactovak SG

Yolanda,

If don't have how?!? :p