Feeling uneasy

last SG · 2001-08-01T15:47:00+00:00

If the relationship is beyond hope, no pt putting in effort too, agreed? So one must be extremely cautious in starting a relationship in case he/she regrets...

mikegk_76 SG

I'm finally back in army serving the remainder 4 mths after my uni studies. All personnel there is younger than me, even my dept ic is 1 yr younger than me, my vocation is a veh mechanic. Bsides this, I noticed that my campmates all hav gf, I so jealous, I the oldest there and yet I dun hav a gf, all of them even go niteclubs which I really disapprove, I really wonder why they go niteclub drinking and asking for girls where they already hav gfs, I really feel sorry for their gf. However, what I most concerned now is finding a secure job, but can love come later? Should I go for lov now if I hav someone in mind or shd I conc on my job first, like to hear your comments???

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

yolanda_tan SG

i tink u can haf love and work at the same time lor…

domyoji33 SG

Do not go n find love , "she" will come n find you , if u keep on wandering abt to look for ur love , "she" will then have a hard time looking for you . In the end both of u will be searching for each other, n never being able to met .

"SHUN QI ZI RAN"

Regarding the attached guys going to pubs. i am really disgusted! If i ever find my bf doing tat i willl be really mad with him!
Those army frenz of urs are too young to settle down for a serious relationship. I think they juz wanna have fun. If u are mature enough , dun join them.

^TzM 53^ SG

i agree wif both of u .... u can haf love and work together... it should bring anything but happiness coz if u haf stress @ work... all u come to is...(u noe) :p
but abt that SHUN QI ZI RAN thingy...i think its crap(domyoji33..this is wad i think).if u love a gurl...go for it...u will never noe the out come... Smile
abt yr 3rd paragraph domyoji33.... u r rite...if u love her..NEVER go flirting ard...if u want her to be wif u...till death do us part thingy....NEVER even think of doing so.

mikegk_76 SG

Ya, think I shdn't "shun qi zi ran" any longer liao, nt young anymore, must fight for my own happiness, thanks for all the advices.

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

^TzM 53^ SG

good luck man.... all the best in yr love life too. Smile

*|azy SG

Originally posted by mikegk_76:
Ya, think I shdn't "shun qi zi ran" any longer liao, nt young anymore, must fight for my own happiness, thanks for all the advices.

hmm.. i argee w e part abt shun qi zi ran.. yah, u can fight 4 things tt u wan.. but.. alot of things r nt within our ctrl.. we can juz do our best..

heh.. u do seem like someone who noes very well wad eva u wan 4 life.. all e best yah.. Smile

[This message has been edited by *|azy (edited 22 July 2001).]

ProSucker SG

Hey man!! me too got around 120 more days to ORD !! well.. a bit more to go MAN..juz hang on there!! u ORD when ar??

which unit r u in now? wow a university Graduate!! Congrats!!! DHey!! why feel so sad.. with your status.. u can juz whistle and 5 gerls will come after you one,, dun be jealous bout what others do yours will soon to come. while waiting for ORD u can juz hang around outside and join any organised competitions such as BIG WALK or any community clubs..or picked up some sports
keep yourself occupied as well as a lookout juz in case some jio-bu got your attention.. after your ORD and in Working field.. there r more chicks there .. so save all your love and kisses then and im sure u gonna be stuck wif someone there... patience my frend, juz like u r patiently waiting for ORD.. if u impatient. you might also ended in Detention Barracks and extend yout NS serving life.. u dowan that rite??

MEDIK!

As Always

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mikegk_76 SG

My ORD is late October, hopefully, I can secure a "chemist" post, I major in chemistry in NUS Science faculty, so u ORD earlier than me leh, u got a gf nw?

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

yolanda_tan SG

gd luck!!!!!!

^TzM 53^ SG

shit...i ord liao still cannot find a gd job....haiz~~

t|rEd SG

xing fu shi you zi ji qu zheng qu de.....
translation: happiness is wat u hafta look 4 urself.....it wun come running into ur open arms....

well, u may pray n ask god for something, and he will answer ur prayers, but wat he'll do is not sending the thing u asked for straight into ur open outstretched arms, but instead, place it somewhere in the midst of ur journey in life...whether u'll be able to grasp it depends on u n u alone....god helps only pple who help themselves.....u wan it, u go for it. it's just there........

blackhair SG

u r a fucking mechanic still complain????? shut the hell up n eat a bowl of falungong. stupid mechanic….

ApPlE_PiE SG

Dun be so depressed la! Smile!! Smile
I agreed dat both love and work are impt,but somehow i think dat u should concentrate on ur work first.After u had a secure job then find gf lor!

Dun let the thought of everyone has a gf only u dun have harass u and spoiled ur mood.
Be positive! U nice person,sure can find gf 1.

If now u had someone in mind, maybe i would suggest dat u cont to keep in contact with her,get to know her better and oso let her get to noe u better.Dun rush into it. U oso dun wana c a sad ending rite?? Smile

Best of luck to you!! Wink

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mikegk_76 SG

thanks to your luck...Hopefully, there will b one...

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

AsTr0GiRL SG

Originally posted by domyoji33:
Regarding the attached guys going to pubs. i am really disgusted! If i ever find my bf doing tat i willl be really mad with him!

I think there's nothing wrong wif going to pubs lor... clubbing is fine as long as he behaves himself.. if one can't even trust the own bf enough for him to behave himself, then no point in being together liao... coz trust is impt... and not all guys go pubs to flirt..

but going niteclubs is another thingy... coz almost all guys go niteclubs to get gals..

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When 2 hearts are meant for each other, no distance is too far, no time is too long and no other love can break them apart....

mikegk_76 SG

But even if ur bf go pub, he won't let u knw loh...

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

Larry SG

Fooling around is part and parcel of life, as long as u don't go overboard, and this is a word that most people can't really defined. Rolling Eyes

Devil1976 SG

Hmm.......

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I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II

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domyoji33 SG

yah , i think there's a misunderstanding here. Of coz there's nothing wrong going to pubs. It's the flirting part that disgust me. Personally i have seen lots of guys like tat. I agree with you in saying that trust is very important in a relationship.

My bf used to be really worried when i go clubbing with my frenz. He will call every now n then. Even if it is going to a cafe near my house to lim kopi , he will call at 10pm n says tat it is late liao , time to go home.

i had a good tok with him n told him that all i need is freedom and i really need him to trust me. I used to smoke n drink , so he was really afraid that i will pick up these bad habits again if he is not ard. So ... i get what i want and we are still together hehehee

Some times there's nothing u can do but to SHUN QI ZI RAN. U know that somethings u can't force it. Love is one good example. Heard of the new song by Sun yan Zi? "Kite"