help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@T[Dark]R^LuC!An^@ SG

theres tis gal whom i like alot and i told her last yr 1 day after mine bday.but she kinda of rejected me, we stayed as close frens. nw mine bday is around the corner again shld i try again?????

Devil1976 SG

If you treasure your friendship with her, my answer would be no.... If you're sure that she really won't mind, can ask her a simple direct 'yes/no' question... <- BUT don't HINT, PESTER or show affection... BECAUSE they're close friends now... Not nice to do that.... Of course, method of approach would vary a bit with regard to her character, but I should believe that's the 'best one' for now....?
Love is like magnets... You don't have to stick the two magnets together if the field is there.... Just bring them close together and 'physics' would do the rest.... Wink

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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II

ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥....

yolanda_tan SG

i agreee

Larry SG

Devil:

Same sentiments exactly. A bad move to try the same attempt again. Are u going to do it every year??

People say persistence pays but in this case, depending on the type of girl u are looking at, u might get different results. But take note that if u never try, u never know. Smile

Devil1976 SG

Try what...? Try and irritate people huh...?? Very Happy

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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II

ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥....

controversay SG

A piece of advice: never try this kinda day on ur birthday...given ur track record with her, it's not likely ur birthday will make any difference with the outcome...

Since she wants to stay as frens, then honour her request...that shows that u respect her friendship and that's important to her.

If u persist, the chances are she's not even gonna stay ur fren anymore. Just stay as frens for now. Let her make the next move if she wants to

yolanda_tan SG

hmmmm….

ApPlE_PiE SG

Now...as a ger myself...i wouldnt like a guy to keep on pestering me abt such a question even if im very close to him.somehow,i'll find it quite irritating.

But, if you could do something to really touch her heart,to prove it to her dat you are realli serious abt being with her,i think most probably you'll succeed.but then this method does not apply to all gers! :p

Anyway, try not to ask her on ur bdae.let say (touch wood!)she rejected you again,then ur bdae will be a sad day liao.Try to be happy on ur bdae,enjoy it,its ur dae!

Happy Birthday!! Very Happy

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I'LL HoLd U dEaR
AnD I wILL rEMiNiScE
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ThE YeArS....

mikegk_76 SG

Me totally agreed, don't try again, it's still nt the correct time, u must nw most imptly proved ur sincerity that u want to protect her all your life and love her forever. Frm what I knw, gers doesn't require much, but only extra care & concern from her bf

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off