it doesn't really matter who is jio-ing who. if the couple
really like each other, i don't see why can't the gal make the 1st
move.
however, for most guys, i'm a guy too, sad to say, if the gal makes
the 1st move, then sometimes they dun value her as much as one they
jio-ed by their own effort.
i had 2 gfs who made the 1st move before, i guess it really takes a
lot of courage and so called 'info-gathering' on their part before
they decided to make the 1st move.
from what i know, if the gal makes the 1st move, the guy will more
readly accept. but not always lor... must see if the guy has a
tinch of liking for the gal or not.
on the other hand, most gals will say, they rather let the guy make
the 1st move. or else they might get labled as desperate. most gals
are naturally shy to make the 1st move as they fear rejection
greater then guys... so in this bo pian situation, guys must still
have thicker skin and make the move....
