MY First Sentence is: I DUN REALLY BELIEVE IN FRIENDSHIP, NO
MATTER SHORT OR LONG.
Friendship?? or issit juz Aquaintance? Its easy to get aquaintances
but not eazy when forming a frendship.. there r lots and lots of
people whom we've met and know them, see them, even tok to them for
quite sometime.. but somehow they have yet to be recognised as
friendship.. even though we have place some or big amount of trust
in it. sad, but well it happens! u might not believe it but well,
you have already experience it.. only some people would realise
it.. we r juz too buzy for this world, this country, even at this
time.. Cruel and Merciless i suppose..
how about it when u met an "old" frend or a long lost frend?? yeah,
its true at first, "frends are frends forever".. but as time goes
by.. do u think we have more or less merely "downgraded" them to
juz aquaintance?? look at the way we tok to them, spend time with
them, or even behave when they r around or met them along the
streets.. issit as same as if they r juz aquaintance? instead we
spend more time to those people whom u r interested to tok
to..building the bridges of communications with them..destroying
those bridges youve made with other people whom you have met
before..
A few big Examples to strengthen my point is that.. DO YOU EVER ASK
YOURSELF THIS.. When u r in SECondary skool.. do u ever ask
yourself WHERE ARE MY NURSERY AND KINDERGARTEN FRENDS go to? do i
still remember ALL of them? HOW abOUT the name and faces those few
TEACHERS guiding me during that time? do i still remember the
CONCERT we had after we had passed our Kindergarten levels? maybe
the only thing we remember is during the photo taking session in
kindergarten where we are suppose to wear like University Graduate
holding a scroll.. ohhh thats long long time ago.. do u still
remember your "frend" who sat juz beside you? maybe u still remeber
those faces of the naughty ones... but whats his/her names ah? do u
think they still remembers me? ask the same thing when u r in POLY,
JC or ITEs.. where r my primary skool frends, Kindergarten frends,
and nursery friends...???? do i juz stipped them off too?? or do i
still rememer them in the first place? ask the same thing again if
u r University Grads or in Working Fields. do the answers are
almost the same as the previous questions??
this is the same thing that happens to you, it happens everytime,
like a cycle. once you leave skool.. u r leaving your "frends" too
or juz merely stripped their status from "frendship" to mere
aquaintance.. cos you r giving this status to someone new in
future..
there r also lots people whom youve met and tok to..but once u r
not interested talking to them, you somehow disappear.. its
naturaL.. and when they want to tok to you.. you juz reply for the
sake of entertaining them and soon you are being a hypocrite
yourself.. how do u feel if u r in their shoes.. u tok, they tok..
u stop, they also stop.. soon u'll either lose intrest in toking to
them or u start trying to get their attention.. and i bet that most
of them will feel irritated whenever u try to get their attention..
dun worry .. its nature too.. we are living in the world of
WAYANGS!!
This is juz appertizers only.. i still got some more to say but im
afraid among u all might write a novel bout it and self-declared
original and become a local best-sellers..and i got nuthing.. im a
PROFESSIONAL (SELF-DECLARED) CRITICS, u noe.. im a person who u can
see destruction in one way but a chance to self-improve in another
way..
i havent put in bout those frends who suddenly become
backstabbers... hmm backstabbers.. sounds familiar?? anyone kena
before?? i still got a few DAGGERS left behind my back waiting for
someone to help me take it out.. it hurts whenever i try to sleep
on my back.. OWWW
thats one of many reasons why i dun really believe in FRENDSHIP..
but more on short term or long term Aquaintance cos sooner or
later.. time will separate us unintentionally, either me or you,
keeping those who r still interested in maintaining contact.
so dun feel really SAD if the so-called frendship that u had with
these new bunch of people dosent last that long. always remember
about your frends in Primary school.. SIX-SEVEN BLOODY YEARS you r
with them.. sharing joy and laughter and sadness.. but how and
where were they now? is SIX years of frendship too short?? so issit
FRENDSHIP or Aquaintance?
To make a Frendship is like making a multi-flavoured ice-cream.. u
need to put a lot of things.. trust, sincere, hope, common
activity, time, money etc and 1 most important thing.. which i
myself still doing "research" about thow to make it last the
longest.. as we know for ice-cream.. the more fatty the cream is,
the longer they last.. but for this.. erm.. The decision lies in
the hands of the most powerful, most compassionate and the most
merciful.. the ONE who CREATE US! no one can make anything last
longer than HIM.. Seek for HIS help and PATIENCE is the catalyst
for anything, even frendship to last longer. If HE decided that
something must not last long, there must be a reason behind it and
its for us to decipher them..
oklah.. me already got bubbles in my mouth liao..
GOOD LUCK!
AS ALWAYS....
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Professional Critics
