Don't say I'm heartless... :(

Klactovak SG

I was thinking if I'm too heartless if I were to write people off my list of good friends.

I'm a private person and values friendship well. If a good friend is in trouble, I'll forgo many things just to make sure they are feeling better...

What happens if someone whom you treat as a friend, betrays you and make you heartbroken over some silly matters. What I do is to give them a few chances and if they prove that they are not worth being my friends. I strike them off my list, ie. delete their contact nos., their e-mails and basically forget that they ever existed in my life. So is this being too heartless or should they be a better solution? Confused

Prodigy SG

nah
its not heartless
i mean...if they r not worthy of your friendship and they r proven to be bastards
why continue the friendship with them???
i had a friend...ONCE a friend, 1 or 2 yrs ago
and we were getting kinda close and all
but u know wat?
he was jus using me and my other friends for his own good and when everyone found out, we ignored him totally, as if hes someone we've never met b4
ppl can be real jerks some times...

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Love rotates the world, not hatred.

Devil1976 SG

Well... You chose your own friends...? Through love you nurture your own friends, through HATRE they're destroyed....

"Flowers bloom, flowers die.... Such are just nature course of life..."

Just know what you're doing.... And remember this,"'Friends' is just another form of illusion..."

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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II

ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥....