'Hi i got to noe his guy during a temp job. HE seems to
like me a lot. However i do not like him at all and just wish to
stay as frens. I told him tat. however he still do not wish to give
up wooing me. wat can i do to reject his love to
me?'
'ignorance no use. he will keep calling and calling and sms
and sms until i so fed up wif him. feel like giving him a slap on
his face and ask him to wake up his idea!'
'auntie...then i too old liao. :-)
anyway i told him rite in the face tat i am not the one for
him..say my character difference, he says he will accept me and
willing to wait and tat it is his own wish. sigh.... i even told
him i not willing to commit and tat wif me , he wun b happy, he say
he will wait....errrrrr....
he say thing tat doesnt come by easily is the one tat he tresuare
the most.
can't stand him!!!!!'
'got to know during an exhibition. he wan my no, but i din
give him. then he pester. so i say i give email add will do. then
he add me in icq...sigh...'
'well he is not consistent, but persistent.'
'Klactovak thanks for helping me. :-)
well.. the guy intially as frens, he is ok. However he become very
sticky and "demanding" towards me..like, why i no online, where i
go etc.
then i make things very very clear to him that me and him is not
possible, both character and interest and he never stand a chance.
Ask him to respect my decision. he say he respect my decision.
However he will not give up, even if in future i have bf, he still
wait!
Of cos i dun believe him tat he really wait till i married or wat
lar... but right now, he is ... sad to say, but he is
irritating!'
'i only give him my email. the rest he find out himself. ie
icq. then hp is when he need to get somethig fro me so bo pian hav
eto give him'
i guess after u set this as a topic, lotsa advices were given to u.
however, it seems that u only made use of the softer approaches. it
may be due to ur nature that u do not wanna hurt him but dun u
think that its not of any use? y dun u juz once and for all do
something FIRM and keep him away for good?
he can be persistant, so can
you
u can still go online anytime coz on ICQ, if you happen not to
know, there's this function called IGNORE user
(",) or even juz leave him on ur invisible list.
Do you need the gift frm him very much? coz i still can't
understand y u gave him ur hp no. since u find him irritating.
Wouldn't it give him more chances to pester you or even lead him
into thinking that he stands a chance?
frm my point of view, if i wanna reject sum1, it can be easily
done, juz by being silent and let him do/say anything he wans
to.
"U dUn hAf 2 RemeMBer AnyTHing If u Dun LIe."
