is gf or bf so important ????

heavyarm SG · 2001-06-07T19:52:00+00:00

At this stage, it's called puppy love...no vision, no worries, no planning...hehe. it's pretty much like fun under the sun...which is good in a way, bad in a...

heavyarm SG

is bf or gf so important during sec sch or poly or jc life??
i understand everyone need to find one sooner or later
having a gf at this age is a need or a muz??

Atti SG

Well during school time, if have fine, dun have also okie........ leave it to fate.

Shui Yuan........ :p

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yolanda_tan SG

i dun think it's important. in fact i prefer to b on my own. not restricted!!!! Wink

Larry SG

I prefer to use the description of lust and curiosity to answer this question. Very Happy

yuppiez SG

your teenager life will never be complete if u didn't date at these stage!!!!!

conclusion.....i AGREE!

paracetamol SG

Factors:

1. peer pressure.
when you see yr friends in pairs, you silently wish that you can be like him/her.

2. Media.
actually even during yr parent's time, they also have courtship in school! accept that they are not as fortunate as us to have telephone, handphones, sms, icq.....

now, a lot of movies, esp jap serials have all the love examples which teenagers would like to follow.

3. other factors, which has strong influence on you.

tata

[email protected]! SG

It comes naturally... there is no such thing as "it is a must or not" When it come... it comes. Nothing can stop it. Not even you!!!
Good luck!

heavyarm SG

haha so u all agree tat it is ok or having a gf or bf for fun la .....
haha so how many of u hav bf/gf???
haha ask for fun only Razz
erm.... wat abt will u go sian a gal althought u don like her??? hehe

Slimknife SG

Love is poetry
Paper and glass
Meet up more with life
Before it breaks or burns you .
Swallow you up whole

UgLy BuT AdOrabLe SG

Of coz it feels good to have one, but it doesn't matter dat much if u dun, like ruthie said, u'll enjoy so much more freedom..

However, U'll long for someone to share ur Ups n Downs in ur life....therefore, there's pros n cons.. depend on how you see

I use to long for one, but, I dun anymore, doesn't really matters to me anymore, what's more important to me now, perhaps is how to cheong my life to the fullest Very Happy ops, i mean live my life to the fullest :p :p

See the Point??

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Why do i sometimes get the feeling that i am being ignored? Maybe it is just me
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*Sandeee*

heavyarm SG

wahahaha so u go where chiong

UgLy BuT AdOrabLe SG

i cheong lotsa place!

mikegk_76 SG

U mean u cheong lots of laboratories doing lab work... Hehehe

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

Insect Repellent SG

Looks like I miss out a lot of stuffs in my
teenager's days Sad

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Mosquitoes are my No.1 Arch enemies!!! :<

mikegk_76 SG

Can't imagine u think like this, to hav a gf or bf thing really needs some fate, not juz to experience it during a certain stage of life, no wonder couples break that easily nowadays. Is your thinking too modern or mine too old-fashioned, huh?

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

UgLy BuT AdOrabLe SG

Mike, what a thing to say!

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Why do i sometimes get the feeling that i am being ignored? Maybe it is just me
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*Sandeee*

joanne SG

hmm…a bf or gf really do gif u much encouragement n emotional support in watever u do.. so i think having one is gd!! of cos when quarrels come in..thats a diff story!~

mikegk_76 SG

what? did I say something wrong, Sandee, pls enlighten me, but to me, one and only everlasting relationship is enough. That's why I won't hurry into getting involved in a relationship loh...

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

Gine SG

heavyarm,

having a gfriend/bfriend at this time is neither a need nor a must. It's either afterschool entertainment, or a waste of time.

For guys, the main motivation is hanky panky. For girls, it's time to either start fulfilling childhood cinderella fantasies,or practice womanly wiles.

heavyarm SG

then u find any gf(i suppose u are a male) to hanky panky?