Shauny,
Dun rush into it. Sometimes, it is just a infatuation or crush. 2
years ago, I had fallen in love with a guy who is 8 yrs older than
I am. I like his maturity, his stability, his wisdom and of course
his intelligence. He did not captivate me with all these when we
met the very first time. We knew each other for some time before I
found out where his charm is. However, he rejected me, telling me
that he rather we be friends as he dun wish to lose a good friend
like me. I believe he dun like little girls like me because he did
mention to me that people at my age (teens/twenties) are still
maturing and unstable, as in emotionally.
Shauny, it is not that I would want to break this to you. She is 33
yrs old. She is mature and she knows what she wants and the way to
get it. She may be just having fun and enjoy the attention you gave
her. Like what others mentioned, she may be married or attached so
what is the point? At her age, even she is not attached or married,
she would want to seek stability in a relationship with a guy who
can provide her that. Can you provide her that? She is not young,
like a teenager who can afford the time and youth.
Shauny, just move on. 
She may be just a
passing stop in your life.
