Gals like sweet talk but concern abt weight

birdbird SG

Is it true that gals like to listen to guys sweet talking to them?Even my manager who’s married for abt 5yrs also agree.Another thing is why gals are so concern abt their weight.Even though they look perfectly ok,they will still say they are fat.simply dun make sense.do they really like their bf/husband to love their external beauty more than internal beauty?

Crysania SG

Admit it. Guys ARE concerned with how their gf/wife looks. Maybe they dun mind initally, but when their friends/family starts commenting, he feels the stress. Men have this ego thing in them.

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Atti SG

Well i think theres nothing wrong mah..... in fact if they are not concern abt their weights and like sweet talks, heh....i'll start to wonder if they're really gers Razz

Errrmmmm think some guys also fall into this category also, heh......... we are afterall, human beans. Ai Swee and like to listen to compliments Smile

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Larry SG

Well, as a guy, I have to admit sometimes personal presentation plays an important part. Any guy who says looks doesn't matter is a liar. Very Happy

I believe this is what we call personal grooming.

Bear SG

I agree wif personal grooming is impt.. but I too believe that u dun have to go to the extent of just looks to choose a gf/wife rite?? There are always greener pastures, even when u have Miss Universe, but next yr there will stil be another one.. I mean so long as they look presentable. that's fine wif me..

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birdbird SG

maybe u dun believe me but i seriously dun give a damn to external beauty.internal is the best.if i have to sweet talk,or lying,to get close to the lady,then i can really give up since i fare badly in that area.i really hope gals will appreciate what they have and if the guy really say he dun care abt external but internal,she should believe him.

birdbird SG

Babyacid SG

CONGRATULATION to AA in having the endangered species in out forum... tat is birdbird who is the only guy in the world who doesn't care about looks...

ok, so u might mean what u say.. and ok, maybe u r not the onli one.. but honestly spekaing, most poeple in this world cares about how they and their partner look... it's juz the extent of it... some care too much, some dun care as much ( but they still do )... it's human inate nature... and i dun tink there's anything wrong wif it.. wat's wrong in wanting to goin out wif someone presentable and looking presentable yourself... ? i find it perfectly normal.. when we meet someone new in real life, it's the outlook that judges what we tink about him/her INITIALLY... of coz we r not asking for mr perfect nor ms flawless... i knoe looks changes.. it's personality that counts.. but i cannot find anything wrong in looking your best.. and wanting your partner to look his/her best...

do note that i have mentioned loking his/her best... no point forcing but at the same time no harm in bringing the assets to surface right? they r borne wif it.. i'm not asking for them to flaut it... natural beauty is the best.. and tat's exactly wat we r talking about here...

Dreamlord SG

i think that girls would care about her own looks a lot more than a guy would care about her looks .. i mean, looking at the time and effort girls take to do up themselves, the amount of money spent .. kinda scary really.

birdbird SG

my look is so so.that might the reason why i dun care much abt look.or maybe i'm sick of looking at pretty gal.but whatever it is,i'm not planning to marry a vase.or so to say.
and yes i do agree with what you say.it's definitely perfectly normal to want to be with someone who's presentable.but hey...i think u r drifting away from what i'm discussing in this thread.

NiVleK SG

Point to note

The topic

" Gals like sweet talk but concern about weight "

I had to wonder why the BUT was used in this sentence. What has sweet talking got to do with weight? Why the usage of the word "but"??????????????????? Confused

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Babyacid SG

agreed~~~ dunnoe why he put tat when the two topics are seperated one.. hmmz.. maybe save space? or maybe to raise controversy or stuff like tat? *puzzled* Rolling Eyes

aniwae, tat's drifting from the topic again...

ZiZi SG

Even if gals like sweet toks.But in the first place y guys like to sweet toks wif gals?Trying to win their golden heart?Trying to create the romance?
Guys dun worry as much as gals do.Gals create big thing out of small things.Or else there wun b conflict.

Dragonlance SG

Smile I don't mind what a girl really looks like on the outside and they can wear anything, as long as they use their personality as their accessories.
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Larry SG

Well, if I ask u frankly, do u like your gf to be a person who lacks personal cleanliness?? Are u able to accept her as she is?? Think carefully before u answer this. Very Happy

What I meant by personally grooming is tidiness. As long as she knows how to keep herself presentable, it doesn't matter if she looks like Tom Jones. *no offence* :p

Anyway, back to the topic. Sweet-talking is just a pack of lies to me. I rather display genuine care to my gf.