to this i will reply......(to other posts tt i neber reply,
please do not fel neglected hor.....sollee...) anywayz, one reason
y i'm replying, i coz i've actually had the same feelign lo. nono,
i'm not saying i understand just for the sake of saying it n making
u feel better. thou' trying to make u feel better is part of the
reason, but main reason is, i've been thru' this stage. yes i have.
read up in the previous (forgot which one) topic i posted.....thou'
i'm still not ultra clear of wat's ahead of me, and i'm still
confused, but somehow, the thing tt was troubling me tt time (i
still dunno wat it was....hee~) is not troubling me nemore lo.
nope, it isn't solved yet. coz i haven't found the root. =) but
i've learnt to adopt the attitude of shun qi zi ran, and chuan dao
qiao tou zi ran zhi....i realised tt, althou i'm really quite fan
over it, but no matter how i fan, it oso cannot be solved, so y not
just leave it into the trusty hands of our loving Heavenly Father?
=) okok, so u may not be a christian, but u get wat i mean, things
will iron themselves out somehow. =)))) if u really do blif in tt
rite, sometimes, more often than not, it does make life easier to
live lo. =)))
eh, one other approach would be, take things slowly lo...one at a
time. dun rush urself to solve the problem....mebbe now u too fan
oredi, so u can't c the actual problem. leng jing yi dian, den find
some time alone with urself. ask urself wat's troubling
urself.....u could talk to someone if u like, but for me, a mind to
heart talk with myself is best lo. =) dun panic and worry even more
if u can't seem to find the answer to ur questions. be truthful to
urself, coz it's urself u r talking to....nothing to hide, nothing
to fear......=)
really hope i helped u in some way or another lo. =))) dun mian
qiang zi ji qu jie jue the wun ti.......let nature run its course.
=)
